2024 0828 給小怡的祝福：滋養 Nurturing
辛苦了，小怡。
才剛加班完，趕著跟我約。
妳說心情很不好，因為辦公室有不喜歡的人。
這種情緒點我懂。
可是每天都在同一間辦公室，為何今天心情特別不好。
妳想了想說，可能是覺很累吧。
累，是因為加班。
很累，然後看到不喜歡的人也在加班，不舒服的心情就湧上來了。
這樣的小怡，真可愛。
若換成我，我很累，很忙，不喜歡的人卻可以準時下班輕鬆走人，這樣的情況就會激起我的心中怒火。
可位低，無權，言輕的我們，能怎麼辦？
我分享了過去我自己的做法，妳聽得眼睛睜大，還反問我，可以這樣拒絕主管的指示和安排嗎？
其實，當然是不太好。只是那時的我真的是年輕氣盛呀。
現在回首，當然會覺得可以有更好的方式和態度去面對及處理，可在那當時，那堵在胸口的一口火氣，吞不下，那就只能選擇冒出頭。
於是磕碰撞痛，走得跌跌撞撞，走得東搖西晃，不是很舒坦的人生路。
我們一邊有點小抱怨工作環境的不如意，一邊嘲笑過去個性嗆辣的我，爭得當下一口氣，不懂伏與忍的謙遜，享受到短暫的快感，逞一時之快，對於現況與問題，依然無力。
我們最後笑話說，就看不到不喜歡的人，降低受其影響，做好自己的工作就是了。
時間久了，也就麻痺了。
麻木了，也就忘了原本一直過不去的坎是什麼。
有點逃避的做法，可我們也不想太過委屈自己。
不喜歡，就是不喜歡。
躲不過，閃遠點總可以吧。
這真的是職場話題常會有的無言的結論呀。
給小怡塔羅祝福：【滋養 Nurturing】。
來自宇宙的訊息，有些事情才剛培植種下，需要時間的養育，在工作上可以多花些精神與氣力，投注更多的耐心與堅持，多扛起一些責任，在果實成熟時，妳將會擁有意想不到的豐收成果。
2024-08-28 Blessings for Xiaoyi: Nurturing
You've worked hard, Xiaoyi.
You just finished working overtime and rushed to meet me.
You said you were in a bad mood because there's someone in the office you don't like. I understand that kind of feeling. But since you're in the same office every day, why did you feel especially bad today?
After thinking for a bit, you said it might be because you're feeling very tired.
The fatigue is due to overtime work. You're really tired, and then seeing the person you don't like also working overtime just brought up uncomfortable feelings. You're so adorable, Xiaoyi.
If it were me, I'd feel very tired, very busy, and if the person I don't like could leave work on time without any hassle, that would ignite a fire in my heart.
But what can we do when we're in low positions, have no power, and our words carry little weight?
I shared with you how I handled similar situations in the past, and you listened with wide eyes, even asking if it's really okay to refuse the supervisor
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