8．如果失去親愛的人 If you lose someone you love

　　當我們失去心愛之人，唯有親身經歷過的人才能體會……

　　疫情以來的這些日子，如果你正經歷失去親愛的人的痛楚，不曉得該如何接納這個事實，不妨閱讀下面的小故事。

　　有一個在外地經商的人，他的孩子在家鄉過世了。

　　在這個生意人回到家之後，妻子對他說：「若有人將價值不斐的寶石交付給我保管，如今這個寶石的主人決定將它收回，那麼我應該怎麼做才好？」

　　丈夫回答道：「當然是物歸原主。」

　　妻子說：「上帝如今已把我們的寶石帶回天上了。」

　　據說，莊子的妻子死了，惠施前來弔唁，看到莊子叉開兩腿坐在地上，敲著瓦盆在唱歌。惠施不禁責怪他，人家為你生兒育女，現在剛死你就歌舞，太無情了吧？

莊子說：

「她剛死，我怎麼會沒有感慨呢？但是認真想想，她原本就是沒有生命的。

不但沒有生命，也沒有形體；不但沒有形體，而且沒有氣。

她混雜在恍惚之中，變化有了氣，氣變化有了形體，形體變化有了生命，現在只不過是又變化而去了。就像春夏秋冬四季輪轉一樣自然。

她現在正舒服地睡在天地的大屋子裡，而我卻在這裡嚎啕大哭。

也太不通達了，所以我才不哭了，改為歌唱。」

　　When we lose our beloved, only those who have experienced it firsthand can understand.... ... These days since the epidemic, if you are experiencing the pain of losing a loved one and do not know how to accept this fact, you may wish to read the following little story.

　　There was a man who was doing business in a foreign country, and his child died in his hometown.

　　When the businessman returned home, his wife said to him, "If someone gives me a precious stone of great value and now the owner of the gem decides to take it back, what should I do?"

　　The husband replied, "Of course, it is returned to the Lord."

　　The wife said, "God has now brought our jewels back to heaven."

　　It is said that Zhuangzi's wife died, and Huishi came to mourn and saw Zhuangzi sitting on the ground with his legs spread, banging on the tile pot and singing. Huish couldn't help but blame him, people have children for you, and now you just died you sing and dance, too ruthless, right?

Zhuangzi said:

"She just died, how could I not feel it?"

But if you think about it, she was originally lifeless.

Not only is there no life, but there is no form; Not only is there no form, but there is no qi.

She was mixed in a trance, the change had qi, the change of qi had a form, the change of form had life, and now it was only another change.

As natural as the four seasons of spring, summer, autumn, and winter.

She was now sleeping comfortably in the great house of heaven and earth, and I was crying here. This is also too unattainable, so I stopped crying and sang instead. ”