When the weight of fear starts to press on your chest, pause and breathe. Remind yourself: not every heavy feeling is a sign of danger. Sometimes, it's just a memory echoing too loudly. Thoughts like “I'll mess this up,” or “Everyone is judging me,” often come from wounds, not truth. Look at the moment with clear eyes. What's actually happening? You've been through hard things before, and you made it through. That strength didn't disappear—it's part of you now. This time, you walk in with more courage and more clarity. This time, you don't have to run—you get to rise. 當恐懼的重量壓上心頭，請你先停一下，深呼吸。 提醒自己：不是每一份沉重，都是危險的警訊。 有時候，那只是一段記憶，聲音太響了些。「我一定會搞砸」、「大家都在看我笑話」—— 這些想法，多半來自內心曾經的傷，不是真相。 試著用清晰的眼光看看現在：此刻真正發生了什麼？你以前也走過難關，不是嗎？你撐過來了。 那份堅韌沒有離開，它早已成為你的一部分。 而這一次，你擁有更多的勇氣，也看得更清楚。這一次，你不需要逃跑——你可以選擇站起來。

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