When you are in contact with Me and your greatest desire is to do My will, you will find that every action you take must be done not for the self but for the good of the whole. This life is only for completely dedicated souls who are willing to leave the self behind and become part of the whole. It is not easy for the majority of humanity to do, for many souls are not willing to give up their individuality. They want to cling on to what they call their rights, and do exactly what they want to do, without consideration for anyone else. Therefore, if ever you feel that life is not going your way and you are out of harmony with the whole, take time to find out what it is within you that is causing the disharmony, and never look around for a scapegoat you can blame. When you realise it is something within yourself that is causing it, you can rectify it without delay.