Sometimes we convince ourselves that life just “happens” to us, as if we're passengers in a story already written. But the truth is, we hold the pen. Every day, we make small, often unnoticed choices that shape our path. Recognizing that we still have a say — no matter what's happened before — is deeply powerful. You don't need permission to choose something new. And if you choose the same thing again, that's okay too — because now, you're choosing it from awareness, not habit.

有時候，我們說服自己人生就是這樣，「發生了」什麼，我們只能被動接受，彷彿故事早已寫好，我們只是跟著走的乘客。
但真相是——那支筆，其實一直握在我們手裡。
每天，我們做的那些微小、甚至不被察覺的選擇，正在一點一滴塑造我們的人生。

無論過去發生了什麼，認清「我們仍然擁有選擇權」，這是非常有力量的事。
你不需要誰的允許，就可以為自己開啟一條新的路。
而如果你選擇再次走上同一條路，那也沒關係——因為這一次，你是清醒地選擇，而不是習慣性地重複。