Hold in your consciousness that good comes out of everything and that every experience is given to you to help you to grow and expand. Realise that without first-hand experience you would not be able to understand or open your heart to your fellow human beings, but would stand aloof and even judge and condemn. Experiences, no matter how strange or difficult, have been given to you for a purpose; therefore take the time to look for that purpose. Try to see My hand in everything, to see that nothing is by chance, and that there is no such thing as luck or good fortune. Realise that you draw to yourself all the very best or the very worst in life. It can be peace, serenity and tranquillity, or it can be chaos and confusion. It comes from within, from your state of consciousness therefore do not blame your surroundings. A snail carries its all with it, even its house. You carry all within, and it is reflected without.