"The fact is that I did not know how to understand anything!I ought to have judged by deeds and not by words." 小王子什麼也不懂,但他應該藉由玫瑰花的行為而非言詞評判她。我們有時候會從話語去解讀一個人,但這並非認識對方的合宜方式。想了解對方可以去觀察他\她怎麼待人處事。人言行不一致,脫口而出的話,可能顯示性格,卻也無法確切代表當事者之全貌。想要真實地理解對方,得用心看待他\她如何面對生活。