Projector需要自己的空間至關重要

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請記住，對於導能者而言，重要的是，你無法辨識與他人之間那些聯繫中的細微變化。正如我所描述的那樣，由於你的Aura（能量場）的本質，因為Aura是如此集中，你會納入這種非常深的制約水平。這意味著所有這些制約都可能非常非常強大。因此，當某人給你發出根據你的策略與內在自主權核實是正確的邀請時，你得到的只是一個更大的表面切入點。這就是說「對的，好的，你將前往這裡。」

這些都沒關係。但是，最終結果將取決於你所需要的工具，以便在進程中衡量。如果你是Generator（生產者），當某人說「你想吃晚飯嗎？」你「啊哈」（*指內在自主權的回應）。於是，你就去吃飯。這是一個持續的確認過程，無論你的權威是什麼。身為導能者，它卻不是那樣地運作。它不是。身為導能者，邀請只是為你開通該連結而已，如果你缺乏工具，則無法確實地知道你的去向，也無法知道它何時不適合你。

這是關於要成為一個導能者以及與他人共存所要瞭解的一件事，你並不是無時無刻都與某人在一起。身為導能者，這確實是要掌握的。你需要保持距離。你可以有一個長期關係良好的好朋友，無論是情人，或是孩子，無論情況如何，但是你都需要看到自己需要足夠的空間並且需要能夠退縮。因為如果你不抽離，你將被越來越陷入該制約同化領域。

再次記住，你未必有工具來區分這些關係何時達到需要抽離的地步。例如，PERSPECTIVE（色調、個性、節點）（*指PHS中的Perspective），即你看待事物的方式。你收到某人的邀請，你正確地進入了邀請，但現實是，如果你在與他們在一起的過程中審視自己的進程，你會發現注意力轉移了。你突然被從適合自己的事物中抽離出來，正是在這些時候，你需要意識到自己已經處於制約同化狀況之中，並註意這種制約同化。因為這就是全部。

能夠視見制約同化，為你提供了出路。導能者很難像這樣生活。很難說「我需要你的生產和顯現，但不是現在。」因為擔心你無法收回，也擔心你會失去它。你體內蘊藏著深刻的動力，無論你最終如何在設計中合理化這種聯繫。因此，開始瞭解周圍的人不斷影響你的方式變得非常重要。並記住為什麼我們會看見這些。不是要你結束關係。並不是這樣。這並不是說「這個人對我來說很可怕，我再也不想見到他們了」，這根本不是這個意思。這實際上是關於你的潛力，是真的視見（Seeing）他們制約同化你。大多數人認為你需要一個解決方案「讓我們停止制約同化，依此類推⋯⋯」我們不想停止制約同化。死亡是唯一可停止制約同化的時刻。制約同化在死亡時終止。在那之前，這是我們生活的一部份。不一定是負面的。這可能是你一生中最迷人的事情。

我有一個非定義的情緒系統。我發現情緒型的人都很搞笑，即使他們是地球上最容易被搞砸的人。有趣的「看著那些正在經歷情緒波濤的人」。如果你沒有某些東西，那就不必是你生命中的問題。這是你學到的東西，是可以看見的東西，是可以觀賞的東西，你知道這是全部關於你的電影。因此，在你成為有意識的人的進展中提供質量。

更重要的是，如果你信任自己的策略和內在自主權，你將看到自己有時間去履行自己為什麼在這裡的特權。（但是）那是在哪裡呢？其實就只是視見（see）而已。因此，這是一種審視技術。這是關於使你以自己的乘客意識到達那個你正在觀看制約同化的地方，而不是迷失其中。因為你不必迷失。當你發現有人在改變你看待事物的方式時。就在那一刻，你的乘客意識在那裡微笑：「看看這個。他們正在改變我看待事物的方式。」那不是很奇妙嗎？他們實際上正是這樣做。他們甚至不知道他們正在對我這樣做。他們這樣做並不是他們的錯，這只是他們的設計。他們正在對我這樣做，當你看到這一切時，首先，你與這些人所面臨的所有矛盾都不再那麼個人化。

因為任何人影響你的方式，都會引領你成為導能者，並進入你的印證之旅。當你討論所有這些內容時，你在想什麼、你以為你在想、你以為你在辨識！而不是看見。也不是脫離價值體系。他們「搞砸了」我多少，又為什麼（搞砸我）？當我和他們在一起時，會看見發生的事情。就這樣。其實，有時候那會很有趣。

因為請記住，如果你在看事物的方式上分心，這不一定是不好的。我的意思是有些人會分散注意力，並以你看待事物的方式為你提供具有對立的優勢。那並沒有錯。這些發生在我們身上的事情都沒有錯。這就是我們詮釋它們的方式。這就是我們對詮釋所做的工作以及將詮釋化為行動的方式。「嘿，這是這人對我所做的，我要懲罰他。」與其在意這人對我做了這些事情，實際上它們於事無補，對我也一樣無助。真有趣的電影。而且，如果你不喜歡他們對你的所作所為，則與他們沒有任何關係。這很簡單，並不是說他們是個混蛋，我再也不想見到他們了。這只是我們在一起的時候事情並不好。它就是行不通。與個人無關。拿走你的「只是行不通」，然後把它放在你知道行得通的熟人之中，也把它從我的旅途中拿掉。但這並不是要對他們說，那些戀人喜歡彼此說的話。如果你能與眾不同。你仍然可以是我的朋友。如果你能與眾不同，當然那不是重點。因為導能者可以辨識，那便成了他們的旅程，對嗎？我知道你就是那樣。如果你可能是這樣，那麼你和我可能會成為朋友。你和我可能是戀人。這不是故事。

你唯一自由的時候，就是你是真正自由之時。而要獲得自由唯一的辦法，就是讓其他人自由。你將他們全部釋放。他們可以自由地成為自己的樣子。你不必將他們帶回家教訓他們。你不得不將他們帶回家並餵食他們，但你不必照顧他們，你也不必做所有這些事情。事實上，所有這些都沒有規則。你所能做的就是先審視，然後看看誰在身邊支持你，誰又不在你身旁。你會發現那些為你而存在的人會發生什麼？他們帶你去哪裡？再一次，這不是要抱怨。這是關於發現。這是要弄清楚這些東西是如何運作的。你對機制的瞭解越深，就越容易臣服於你的生命。沒有別的了。我的意思是，它不像青蛙和公主（的童話故事）。沒有別的了。就是這個！這就是那部電影。你所能做的就是通過你的意識來躍升電影。你無法更改劇本，並且劇本是編寫在你的設計之中。從字面上看，實際上是編寫在你的設計之中！

As a projector, you need space.

Remember what is so important for you as projectors, that you don't have the same kind of capacity to be able to recognize nuance changes in those connections that you have with others. As I described you because of the nature of your aura, because the aura is so focused, you take in this very deep conditioning level. That means that all of that conditioning can be very, very powerful. So when somebody gives you an invitation and the invitation is correct according to strategy and authority, all you're getting is a sort of a larger surface entry point. This is something that says okay, okay you’re going here.

This is all right. However, it's going to turn out but in terms of the tools that you need, to measure that as you go along. If you’re a generator somebody says “would you like to have dinner?” you “aha”. You go to dinner. This is an ongoing process of affirmation or whatever your authority is. As a projector it doesn't work that way. It doesn't. As a projector that invitation simply opens you up to that connection and if you don't have tools, you can't tell really where that's going and you can't tell when it's not correct for you.

This is one of the things to understand about what is to be a projector and what it is to be with other beings you're NOT here to be with somebody ALL THE TIME. This is something really to grasp about being a projector. You need to distance. You can have a nice long term healthy relationship friend, lover whatever the case may be, child whatever the case maybe, but you need to see that you need to have your space and you need to be able to pull back. Because if you don't pull back, your being pulled deeper and deeper into the conditioning field.

Again remember, you don't necessarily have the tools to distinguish when those relationships are getting to a point where you need to pull back. For example PERSPECTIVE (color Personality nodes), the way you look at things. You get an invitation from somebody, you enter into that correctly, but the reality is if you're watching your process during the course of the time you're with them, you'll notice that there'll be a shift to your distraction. You're suddenly being pulled away from what's correct for you and it is in those moments where you need to recognize you’re being conditioned and watch that conditioning. Because this is what it's all about.

And being able to SEE the conditioning, gives you a way out. Very hard for projectors to go like this. It's very hard to say “I need your generating and manifesting but not now” There's this fear that you don't get it back, there's this fear that you lose it. There is this deep deep drive inside to hold onto… that connection no matter how you end up rationalizing that in your design. So it becomes very important for you to begin to see the way in which you are being influenced on an ongoing basis by those beings around you. And remember why we see this. Not to end the relationship. This is not about that. It's not about saying “this person is terrible for me and I never want to see them again”, it isn't about that at all. It's about your potential, to actually SEE them conditioning you. Most people think that you need to have a solution “Let's stop the conditioning and so on… We don't want to stop conditioning. The only time that you can stop conditioning, is when you die. Conditioning ends at death. Until then it's a part of our lives. It doesn't have to be something that's negative. It doesn't. It could be the most fascinating thing in your life.

I have an undefined emotional system. I find emotional people hilarious, even when they're the most screwed up people on the planet. Hilarious “look at that person going through their wave”. If you don't have something, it doesn't have to be your problem in life. It is what you learn, is what you get to see, is what you get to watch, you know is what the movie is all about for you. And gets quality to your development as a conscious being.

What's very important is that, if you trust your strategy and authority, you will see that you have time to fulfill the privilege of why you're here. Which is to be where? It’s just to see. So this is a seeing technique. It’s about allowing you to get to that place in your passenger consciousness where you're watching the conditioning rather than being lost in it. Because you don't have to be lost. When you notice that somebody is changing the way you look at things. Your passenger consciousness is there to smile in those moments: “Look at this. They are changing the way that I'm looking at things”. Isn’t that bizarre. They're actually doing that. They don't even know they're doing that to me. And they're doing that, is not their fault, it’s just their design. They're doing it to me, and when you see that, first of all, all the dilemmas you have with these people stop being so personal.

Because the way anybody impacts you, leads to you as a projector, going into your reasoning trip. When you go into all of this stuff about, what you think, you think you think, you think you recognize! Instead of to see. Instead of being out of the value system. How much are they fucking me up and why. And just seeing this, is what happens when I'm with them. That's all. Now sometimes that'll actually be fun.

Because remember if you're being distracted in the way in which you look at things, this isn’t necessarily bad. I mean some people take their distraction and give you the advantage of having that counterpoint, in the way in which you look at things. There's nothing wrong with it. There's nothing wrong with any of these things that happen to us. It's the way we interpret them. It’s what we do with the interpretation and the way we turn the interpretation into action. “Hey, this is what this person did to me, I'm going to punish him”. Instead of this person did this to me, they were helpless so was I. Interesting movie. And if you don't like what they did to you, don't have anything to do with them. It's so simple and it's not about they’re a jerk and I don't ever want to see them again. It's that things aren’t good when we're together. It just doesn't work. Nothing personal. Take your “just doesn't works” and put it with somebody where it works you know and take it out of my trip. But it's not about saying to them, what lovers love to say to each other. If only you could be different. You could still be my friend. If only you could be different and of course that's not the point. And because projectors recognize, that becomes their trip, right? I recognize that you're like that. If you could be like this, then you and I could be friends. You and I could be lovers. It's not the story.

The only time you're ever going to be free, is if you’re really free. And the only way you're ever going to be free, is if you free everybody else. You free them all. They’re free to be what they are. You don't have to take them home and screw them. You will have to take them home and feed them, you don’t have to look after them, you don’t have to do all of that. There's no rule with all of that. What you can do is see, see and then you get to see who's there for you, who isn’t there for you. You get to see that those beings that are there for you, what happens? Where do they take you? And again it's not about blaming. It's about discovery. It's about finding out how these things work. The deeper and deeper you recognize the mechanics, the easier it is for you to surrender to your life. There's nothing else. I mean, it's not like the frog and the Princess. There's nothing else. This is it! This is the movie. All you can do is exalt the movie through your awareness. You're not going to be able to change the script and the script is written in your design. Literally, literally written in your design!