活出你的設計（四之三）：Projector 不該擔心婉拒不正確的邀請

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他們（Projector/導能者/投射者）生活中的一切都與人有關。這些非常特殊的關係，如果你是區分定義（split definition）導能者，在你的辨識能力之中，則必須是所羅門王（*所羅門王擁有超人的智慧，大量的財富和無上的力量。所羅門王的最強特質就是他的智慧。）在允許誰靠近你時，你必須非常明智。導能者最大恐懼是，如果我拒絕，那我就沒「能量」了！但是，當時你不瞭解自己作為吸引力的力量有多強大。導能者是深深而誘人的人物。他們得到關注。不管他們是否想要。他們將永遠得到關注。這可能不是他們喜歡的那種關注。因為畢竟他們是非我。因此，他們將得到各種各樣的關注。當他們拒絕某個人時，將不會有替代者。其實不是的，他們將會有（替代者）！你看，我們不知道如何誠實相處。我們沒有。

導能者是關係「騙子」。他們的確是。他們承受不起誠實。他們不能。風險太大了。不能對他們的關係誠實。如果你不誠實，你會發現你可能會建立什麼樣的關係。而且，你不能，沒有任何價值，沒有任何東西，而且你知道沒有人會從中受益。我們需要在此世上具有醒覺能源的導能者，絕對清醒者。這是絕對必要的。這就是我們未來的要求。但是，它並非始於導能者可能的潛力，而是始於深深被制約同化而產生的矛盾困境，那就是作為一個群體，而使他們深深地迷失在「宇宙」（Maya）之中。這並不是他們的錯。無需責怪。它其實全然跟你有關。關於理解本知識（*指人類圖或人類設計）的一件事是，它是分階級的。即是菁英主義者。

只有某些人可以直接獲得這些知識。世界上沒有多少導能者對於成為一個導能者的概念有任何瞭解。這是一個過程的開始。這是教育過程的開始。我一生中有一些導能者已經經歷了七年的（去制約）周期。你可以看到區別。這需要時間。一個導能者境界需要幾代人的工作（才開始達成），才能真正展現出這種潛力。這是（一門）功課。它可以追溯到這種知識的基礎，即生命中的所有事情都是由你完成的。僅你一個人。沒有其他人。就是你。如果它沒有發生在你身上，如果它在你身上不起作用，那就是你（的錯失）。沒有人能為你實現它。沒有人可以帶你到那裡。導能者必須在自己的內心深處找到對真理的深切渴望。沒有人比導能者對真相更感興趣。沒有人，沒有人。

這是他們的事，當你考慮到他們是難以置信的「騙子」的矛盾困境時，你開始懷疑並想去發現真相。誰來指導別人去瞭解這個真理。有多少個導能者引導人們穿越蠻多的謊言。我的意思是，謊言比這個世界上的真理要成功得多。我們知道。參加「天使之翼大會」的人會比（參加我的課程）多得多。這就是這些東西的運作方式。我擔心的是，對於導能者來說，一切都回到了非常非常基本的互動基礎上。請審視及觀察導能者，並在區分定義（split definition）的內涵中觀察它。要瞭解存在的所有壓力，就必須再次回到基本問題上，基本問題是：如果你沒有將合適的人帶入你的生活，那麼一切都會錯！一切，沒有例外。你知道嗎⋯⋯「我認識這人已經很久了，我真的不能成為這樣，我不能拒絕他們⋯⋯」放過我吧。與他們無關！全關於你！這是世上最自私的知識。

Everything in their life is about people. These very special relationships and if you are a split definition projector, you have to be Solomon in your discernment. You have to be so wise in who you allow near you. And the great fear of the projector is if I reject, I have no juice! But then you don't understand how powerful you are, as a force of attraction. Projectors are deeply, deeply attractive beings. They get attention. Whether they want it or not. They will always get attention. It may not be the kind of attention they like. Because after all they're not self. So they're going to get odd kinds of attention. It's not like if they reject somebody, that there won't be a replacement. There will! See we don't know how to be honest with each other. We don't.

And projectors are relationship liars. They just are. They can't afford to be honest. They can't. There's too great a risk. Can’t be honest in their relationship. And you see what kind of a relationship you can possibly have if you're not going to be honest. And you can't, there's no value to, there’s nothing and you see nobody gains from it. We need this resource of projectors on this plane that are awake, that are aware. It's absolutely essential. This is what our future demands. But it begins not with the fact that there may be that potential for projectors, it begins with the dilemma that projectors are so conditioned, that as a group, that they are so deeply, deeply lost in the Maya. No fault of theirs. No blame in that. It is about you. One of the things to understand about this knowledge is that it's hierarchical. It's elitist.

There’s only certain people that ever get direct access to this knowledge. There’s not that many projectors in the world that have any inkling of an idea of what it is to be a projector. It's the beginning of a process. It's the beginning of an educational process. I have some projectors in my life that have already gone through a seven-year cycle. You can see the difference. It takes time. It will take generations of work, to begin to have a projector milieu that is really displaying what is that potential. It's work. And it goes back to the very basis of this knowledge that says everything in this life is accomplished by you. And you alone. And nobody else. It’s you. If it doesn't happen in you, if it doesn't work in you, it's you. Nobody can make it happen for you. Nobody can take you there. A projector has to find within themselves, that deep, deep lust for the truth. Nobody is more interested in the truth than projectors. No one, no one.

This is their business and when you think about the dilemma that they are incredible liars, you begin to wonder about the discovery of truth. And who's going to guide others to that truth. How many projectors guide people through lies, a lot. I mean lies are much more successful than the truth in this world. We know that. Somebody doing an angel wing convention will get a lot more people than me. That’s the way this stuff works. My concern is that, for the projector everything comes back to the very, very basic of the interaction. See to look at the projector and to look at it within the context of the split definition. And to understand all the pressure that is there, is again to get back to the basic issue, the basic issue is: if you don't bring the right people into your life, everything goes wrong! Everything, no exceptions. You know… “I've known this person a long-time blah blah blah, I can't really be this and I can't reject them…” Give me a break. It's not about them! It’s about you! This is the most selfish knowledge that exists.