Common space in sleeping with their siblings, their relatives, we still have that throughout the world. One of the most fascinating things about the development of the distribution of wealth on this planet is that it provided us with the potentials of individual space. Individual space is really an extraordinary thing and relatively new on this planet.
Just think about it! How few human beings can really afford to have their own unique space. It is really quite the thing to gather. And obviously the moment that your sharing your space with others, you're involved in a deep auric connection with them. An auric connection that ultimately changes your nature.
You grow up in a condition field, and the condition field is going to influence you, that is speaking of somebody who is not self. When you come to human design, when you go to a professional analyst in human design, one of the first things that they're going to tell you after they take you through your reading, is how important it is for you to have your own space for sleeping.
This is one of the most important things that you can do in beginning your deconditioning process. It is not about love, it is not about sex, it is not about any of those things. It's about recognizing that for approximately one third of your day you’re unconscious and you cannot defend yourself, be aware of the impact of the environment around you. Think about what that's like, you're somebody who has, like 49% of the population, you have an undefined emotional system, your emotional system is open and therefore it's vulnerable. And it will amplify in the presence of a defined emotional system and your partner, your sleeping partner happens to be emotional.
Think about that. If they have a dream in which you know they are suddenly cranked up in that dream and their emotional energy is released in that dream goes directly into your sleeping body. You amplify it in your emotional system and it impacts you when you were unconscious.
The other thing is about the nature of relationships. Relationships are not bound together by sleeping together. They’re bound together by meeting each other. It's the most fascinating thing about sleeping in your own aura is that when you come out of your space and you enter into the connection to the other, you're very aware of what you're connecting to. It’s a very different basis for a relationship. And you connect as yourself.
Human design isn't just about finding out interesting things. It is about the transformation of the life. The life is not transformed until conditioning is controlled. And it’s controlled through awareness. Part of that awareness is understanding that if you gonna enter into this experiment of your strategy and authority, that part of that experiment, sleeping in your own space, protect your aura. Allow yourself time to cleanse your aura of conditioning. Wake up in the morning as yourself. And then step out into your world and meet those forces in your life that you’re ready for, as yourself.