2024 0116 也許，你家也有這樣一位。或者是，你就是。 今日牌卡：皇后

今日牌卡：皇后

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一直以來很喜歡用一句話形容女人，溫柔但堅定的力量。

我媽媽，是我這輩子第一個認識的女強人。

她，很霸道，尤其是關於家裡生活採買的物品。

她，很獨裁，尤其是關於家中大小事日期的安排。

她，很果斷，尤其是跟孩子們追討代墊款項的時候。

她，很開朗，當面對婆婆和犯小錯的時候。

她，很溫柔，當與老公分享談心事的時候。

她，很可愛，當逗著可愛帥氣孫子的時候。

我媽，她沒有所謂的強勢氣場。

她沒有高跟鞋、西裝和精緻的濃妝。

頂著一顆捲捲頭，十根圓圓短短胖胖的手指頭。

人未到，開朗暢懷笑聲已先到。

她是皇后，孕育了孩子，孕育出一個家的溫暖。

若說父親是一個家的精神支柱，頂梁柱，那我說母親則是一個家的靈魂，是那繞著樑，伴著樑，不可或缺的靈魂。

我認為所謂的女強人，是內心裡有股源源不絕的強大力量支撐著她面對人生裡的風風雨雨。

她將力量化為溫暖開朗的能量，融化了一路上遇到的冰雪寒天，暖了內心裡孤寂的寸土。

而不是只存在於職場上精明幹練的模樣。

也不是用銳利眼神將人從頭到腳的掃描過一遍。

更不是使用尖銳語言去討論、評價甚至是攻擊。

我，終究，沒有成為像媽媽一樣的女強人。

我沒有堅定的心念，欠缺強大力量，奉行逃避並不可恥的理論，對無心面對的事情，那就托著吧。

還是因為沒有人用溫柔形容過我？！

I always loved describing women with a single phrase - the gentle yet firm strength.

My mother, she's the first powerhouse woman I've ever known in my life.

She is very domineering, especially when it comes to purchasing items for home life.

She is very authoritative, especially regarding the arrangement of dates for all major events at home.

She is very decisive, especially when it comes to collecting advance payments from her children.

She is very cheerful when facing her mother-in-law and making small mistakes.

She is very gentle when sharing her thoughts with her husband.

She is very cute when teasing her cute and handsome grandson.

My mother, she doesn't have this so-called domineering aura.

She doesn't have high heels, suits or elaborate makeup.

It has a curly hair and ten round, short and fat fingers.

Before she arrives, her cheerful laughter has already set the tone.

She's a queen, nurturing children and bringing warmth to a home.

If a father is the spiritual pillar, the backbone of a family, then I say a mother is the soul, the indispensable spirit that surrounds and accompanies, weaving through the beams of a home.

I believe a so-called powerhouse woman has an inexhaustible inner strength that supports her through life's ups and downs.

She transforms that strength into warm and cheerful energy, melting the icy challenges encountered along the way, warming the lonely corners of her heart.

It's not just about being savvy and competent in the workplace.

It's not about scanning people from head to toe with sharp eyes.

It's certainly not about using sharp language to discuss, evaluate, or even attack.

I, in the end, haven't become a powerhouse woman like my mother.

I lack a firm mindset, lack immense strength, and adhere to the theory that avoiding things isn't shameful; if it's something I don't want to face, then just leave it be.

Or maybe it's because no one has ever described me as gentle?!

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