隨筆 #04 | 人生最大的幸運，就是遇見一個永遠發光的人！

我們這一生遇到了數百人，

大部分蜻蜓點水，擦肩而過，僅有寥寥幾個走進人生，以愛人、親人或朋友的身份，來影響和加工我們。我們稱之為「緣分」。

真正好的感情，不是誰改變了誰，更不是把對方改造成你想要的感覺，相反，允許對方，活成他自己最好的樣子。

真正好的感情，不是變成完美無缺的人，然而在眼前看到的不完美之後，依然坦然相視、笑顏相對。初見乍驚歡本難得，久處亦心跳然更珍貴。

真正好的感情，不是彼此的互相凝視，相反，共同凝視同一個方向。在這個光怪陸離的世界裡，一起找到溫暖自己的亮光。

正如小王子所說：「我與你的相遇，就像是一顆璀璨的星辰，照亮了一片荒蕪的星空。”願你我永遠遇見一個始終溫暖的人，目有繁星，沐光同行！

We meet thousands of people in our lives,Most of them is as passers-by,Only a few of them step into our lives,to influence and shape us as lovers, relatives or friends.We call it "Fate."

A perfect relationship,does not mean that one shapes the other,let alone forcing the other to be as you want him,It's more like that allow the other to be himself and to be the best of himself.

A perfect relationship,does not mean that each one is perfect,But means that one still could look into the other’s eyes with smiles,even sees the imperfection.It is rare to fall in love at the first sight,even more precious if could enjoy the companion  after a long time.

A perfect relationship,does not mean that the couple staring at each other,but standing shoulder by shoulder and look forward together.Find your own light to warm yourself in this bizarre world.

As the Little Prince said:"Meeting you is like a shining star that lit a barren universe."Wish all of us could be lucky enough to meet someone to lit each other,with the twinkle stars in the eyes and wear light on the body.