Projector真正力量是發問關鍵問題

2022/03/06閱讀時間約 23 分鐘
原文發佈於:2021/06/01
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服務到位Projector(導能者/投射者)的設計旨在瞭解每個Generator(生產者)的需求和潛力。他們在這裡是為Generator服務的。這就是他們在這裡的目的。
他們就是在這裡問該(正確)問題的人。他們是在這裡發出邀請的。他們是讓Generator做出回應的人。當然,你想要一些回報。等價交換。這就是它的方式。
這是潛在的誠實,因為畢竟這種關係是一種關係,他們只能通過(互相)尊重來運作。這是我嘗試教導能者的一件事。學會提問。蘇格拉底式的,如果你掌握它的話,它在智力上是如此美麗。(*蘇格拉底反詰法或作蘇格拉底法,實質上是一種質問的辯證法。)
沒有什麼比一個好問題更深刻了。我的意思是我喜歡好問題!當你想想Generator(生產者)交談時,Generator會互相提問。那是多麼深刻。那是多麼強大。這是多麼了不起。然而,大多數Generator對於問別人甚麼問題都感到非常不安全。
導能者是天生的(發問專家)!因為他們實際上是為不問你無關緊要的問題而設計的。他們在這裡認同你。他們以一種別人無法識別的方式認同你,這就是我們對非我導能者如此不舒服的原因。
非我導能者直接接入並鑽入(別人的能量場之中),可能會非常不舒服。當他們不正確時,會非常不舒服。你提出問題嗎?但是,當他們出現時,當你需要他們時,他們便會進入你的內心!他們就是直擊你身份的人。
他們將「能量小拳頭」緊緊圍繞在你的Monopole(單磁極)上。我只是這樣穩住,我說:「我得到了你,我得到了你,我得到了你,我得到了你,我知道你是誰。」他們經歷了這個過程,在整個能量場運動中,所有這些小偵查都在進行著。他們正在吸收所有數據,他們正在納入所有數據。你看看是否正確,如果他們是正確的,那麼他們可以提出的問題,不管怎樣,是一個值得Generator(生產者)回應的問題。
這不是關於——不要誤解我在說什麼,就是這樣,你知道——並不是導能者總是會問正確的(就答案而言,答案總是肯定的)問題。有時正確的問題會帶來否定。因為它的答案就應該是如此否定的。這只是關於知道要問什麼問題。
如果你是導能者,你想要與別人進行一次很棒的實驗。真的,和他們在一起(旅行)一次。每當他們和你說話時,只問他們一個問題作為回報。不,我知道,這是一個相當大的實驗。這需要令人難以置信的紀律。而且你真的必須變得敏銳。但這太好了。你會馬上註意到哪些人很煩人。那些生氣的人,你把他們從你的小簿子裡刮掉。好嗎?因為他們不希望你成為導能者。他們只想引起你的注意。沒有別的。
導能者好像是人類的泰迪熊(玩偶)。他們是。它就像「我是有人注意我。」我的意思是,如果你感到無聊或孤獨,請邀請導能者共進午餐。當天你會覺得自己像個國王或王后。他們將給予你所有的關注,他們將專注於你,這會讓人感覺很棒,你會感到很開心。這就是導能者被利用和濫用的原因。如果你是導能者,並且嘗試離婚。哈哈哈,祝你好運!將會是一場多麼激烈的戰鬥。你看,即使你的伴侶討厭你的膽量,我的意思是,即使他們鄙視你走過的土地,世界上最難做的事情就是放棄這種關注。非常難!
我們在非我中有共同成癮的感覺。導能者沉迷於接入那些沉迷於獲得關注的人。尤其是那些沈迷於得到關注的人,因為這使他們覺得有人喜歡他們、愛他們,想像他們的價值。想像很重要。即使這不是真的。他們把持下去。所以導能者在整部電影中都迷失了。他們倆都迷失了。這對他們來說是一個兩敗俱傷的情況。
這與(人類圖/人類設計)的知識有關。這全與該知識有關。非常非常詳細。導能者必須深入學習。他們必須比別人更深入,他們必須學習對別人根本不重要的東西。他們需要瞭解這一切。這就是賦予他們力量的原因。他們從知識中獲取能量。這是不同的。他們不依靠自然能源來發展。其實是他們的知識可以讓他們獲得正確的能量,或者不。因此,當你進入導能者的過程時,你便進入了真實的旅程!
我一遍又一遍地說,我的矛盾困境是必須將這些知識介紹給成年人。因為我對導能者深有同感,所以我這樣做了。這不是Generator(生產者)的即時滿足。不是,這是不同的。它需要一種不同的方法。一個長期的方法,一個不同的觀點。但這需要對知識的真正奉獻。
從這個意義上說,對於導能者來說並不容易,要抓住這每時每刻的滿足。對他們來說,成功是因為他們一個概念接一個概念地獲得醒覺。正是這種對事物運作方式的掌握,才賦予了投射者強大的力量。每當他們掌握事物的運作原理時,它就會越來越深入地集成到這個非常分析的系統中。(他們是)觀察世界的大師。而且他們都戴著這些面具,所以他們看不見。它一如既往地回到理解某些東西。策略對於導能者而言是次要的事情。但內在自主權永遠在他們身上。並且要學習,要相信那個自主權!
因為一開始,只有這樣才能保護他們面對錯誤的別人!當你身為導能者開始人類圖/人類設計的過程時,你的生活中就會有人。這很正常,當然,你生活中的那些人對你來說是個問題。他們是。他們使你維持所有的那些同化。他們期望你成為他們期望你的那樣。你曾經的那樣。他們不希望你深入地窺視他們。
他們只想要你的注意力而不是別的,他們通常希望你按照他們的期望來關注,如果你不給他們,他們就會帶走他們的能量!他們說:「見鬼去吧。」所以你成為他們的奴隸,並為此苦惱。那樣的生活真是太可悲了。因此,這需要非常非常深刻的承諾。你把自己埋在該知識中。這些是我唯一的學生,他們被允許如此專注於知識,以至於他們沒有生活在真理中。因為它會來,它會來。但是,他們必須非常非常非常地瞭解知識。因為那個邏輯真相會逐層,逐層,逐層地解決,直到時間到了。它會出現。確實如此。但重要的是掌握。還有問題,問題。 知道如何提問,這是導能者的偉大目標。這就是他們真正的力量所在。

The real power of a Projector.
Be of service Projectors are designed to see the need and potential of every generator. They're here to be of service to the generator. This what they’re here for. They're the ones that are here to ask the question. They're the ones that are here to make the invitation. They're the ones who get the generator to respond. And of course you want something in return. Quid pro quo. It's the way it goes.
This is the potential honesty because of course after all that relationship is a relationship, they can only operate through respect. It’s one of things that I've tried to teach projectors. Learn to ask questions. It’s Socratic, it's so beautiful intellectually if you grasp it. There is nothing more profound than a good question. I mean I love good questions! When you think about the generator session, generators asking each other questions. How profound that is. How powerful that is. How amazing that is. And yet most generators are very insecure about what questions to ask somebody. Projectors are natural! Because they’re actually designed not to ask you questions that don't matter. They’re here to recognize you. And they recognize you in a way that nobody else can, it's why we are so uncomfortable with the notself projector.
The notself projector it just goes right in and burrows in, it could be so uncomfortable. And when they're not correct, it's very uncomfortable. Do you pose Questions? But when they are, when you need them, they're the ones that go inside you! They're the ones that go right to your identity.
They put their little auric fist, right around your monopole. I just hold on like this and I say: I got you, I got you, I got you, I got you and I know who you are. And they go through this process where in that whole auric movement are all these little investigative things going on. They’re sucking up all the data, they're taking it all in. And you see if there right, if they're correct, the question that they can then ask, is a question that is worthy for the generator to respond to, one way or another.
It's not about, don't misunderstand what I'm saying, it is, you know, it's not that the projector will always ask the right question, in terms of the answers is always yes. Sometimes the right question brings no. So it should. It is simply about knowing what questions to ask.
See if you’re a projector, you want to have a great experiment with people. And really, have a trip with them. Whenever they talk to you, only ask them a question in return. No, I know, it's quite an experiment. It takes incredible discipline. And you really have to be sharp. But it's wonderful. And you'll notice right away which people are annoying. And the ones that are annoyed, you scratch them out of your little book. Okay? Because they don't want you to be a projector. They just want your attention. Nothing else.
See projectors are humanity’s teddy bears. They are. It's the I-havesomebody- who-pays-attention-to-me. I mean, if you're bored or lonely, invite a projector to lunch. You'll feel like a king or queen for the day. They're going to give you all that attention, they're going to focus on you, it’s gonna feel terrific, you will feel wonderful. It’s why projectors are used and abused. If you’re projector and you try to get a divorce. Ha, ha, good luck! What a battle that's gonna be. You see even if your partner hates your guts, I mean, even if they despise the very ground you walk on, the hardest thing in the world for them to do is give up that attention. It's hard to do!
You see we have mutual addictions in the not-self. The projector that is addicted to plugging in with the person who is addicted to having the attention. And the one is addicted to having the attention wants the attention because it makes them feel like somebody likes them, loves them, thinks they’re worthy. Thinks that are important. Even if it's not true. They hold onto it. So projectors get lost in that whole movie. They lose both ways. It's a lose, lose situation for them.
It’s about the Knowledge. It's all about the knowledge. It's very, very detailed. A projector has to go very deep. They have to go deeper than anybody else, they have to learn things that really don't even matter to other people. They need to understand it all. It's what gives them their power. They get their energy from knowledge. It’s different. They don't thrive on the natural source of energy. Is their knowledge that gives them access to the right energy or not, or not. And so when you enter into the projector’s process, you enter into a real journey!
I say over and over again, my dilemma with having to introduce this knowledge to adults. Because I empathise deeply with projectors, I do. It's not the instant gratification of a generator. It isn't, it’s different. It takes a different approach. A long-term approach, a different view. But it takes a real dedication to the knowledge.
It's not so easy in that sense for projectors, to have the moment by moment gratification. And success for them is as they gain awareness concept by concept by concept. It's this grasping of how things work, that gives the projector its power. And each time they grasp how something works, it gets integrated deeper and deeper into this very, very analytical system. The Masters of looking at the world. And they're all wearing these masks so they cannot see. And it comes back as always, to understanding something. Strategy is a secondary thing for the projector. But authority is always there for them. And to learn, to trust that authority!
Because in the beginning, it's the only thing, that protects them from the wrong other! When you begin your process in human design as a projector, you have people in your life. It’s normal and of course those people in your life, they’re a problem for you. They are. They hold you to all that conditioning. They expect you to be, the way they expect you to be. The way you have been. They don't want you probing them.
They just want your attention and nothing else and they normally want your attention on their terms and if you don't give it to them, they take their energy away! They say: “the hell with you”. So you become enslaved to them and bitter about it on top of it. It can be so sad, that kind of life. So it takes a very, very deep commitment. You bury yourself in the knowledge. These are the only students of mine, that are allowed to get so absorbed in the knowledge, that they don't live the truth. Cause that’ll come, it'll come. But they have to get very, very, very absorbed in the knowledge. Because that logical truth settles in layer, by layer, by layer, by layer until it's time. It emerges. It does. But it's the mastery that matters. And the questions, the questions. To know how to ask a question, this is the great goal of a projector. Here is where their real power is.
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