2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man

好久不見了，Derek ~

看著你的訊息，與跟你對話的過程中，我感受到你的痛苦與已想盡辦法卻仍困在死局裡的狀況。

如同你所寫的，我們算不上熟悉，甚至可以說我們其實也不太認識對方，在那幾天的課程中，我們會閒聊一些，一起吃了頓飯，喝了一杯咖啡，之前的緣分如此淺薄，但依然將對方視為朋友。

時光倒推回去，約莫是去年的此時認識的你，而你的人生如同你的計劃，在今年創業了。

記得那時你跟我分享著這創業夢時，我那時腦海中閃過了幾個模糊畫面和一些情緒。

看著你發亮得意的神情，我也不好意思說太多，只輕輕提了幾句，也不敢說是提醒，就像閒聊般去帶到。

而今日你所說的現在面臨到的問題與困境，竟然與一年前我腦海中浮出的景象重疊了起來，並且清晰許多。

身為淡交的朋友的我，沒有立場，沒有角色，沒有資格去評論任何事情，但確實對現在的你的情況感到擔憂。

於是我馬上向宇宙詢問給你指引，抽到的塔羅牌：【倒吊者 Hanged Man】。

我常對於塔羅牌的神奇感到驚訝不已。

現在的情況對你來說就像是被掐住脖子般那樣窘迫，想盡辦法依然無法解決，快要無法呼吸的痛苦與窒悶。

傍晚冷靜後的我覺得需要多關心你，跟你提起向父母求援，才知道現在你們的關係是僵化與冷漠的。

我的直覺是認為趁這次的關係，一來跟父母多些情感關係的建立與連結，二來可打破你們目前相敬如冰的情況，三來可解決你現在卡住的急迫問題。

固執的你，馬上回應不可能找父母談。

哎呀！你怎就是不懂呢，父母的協助可讓你的危機化為轉機，不管是你的事業還是你們家庭氛圍。

對於倒吊者這張塔羅牌，積極面對問題的關鍵，會有”反轉”的機會。宇宙在告訴你，Derek，藉此機會，你需學習與接納，今日的情況與你的溝通、協調以及認知有很大的關係，你從你自己的角度、視野評估與衡量，然後衝動做了決定，卻又沒能將一些情況周全設想到，所以面對了現在，無論是人、事、金錢都出現了卡住、停滯、掐住的窘迫。

當然，這也與你非常年輕有關係。

試著傾聽。

試著放下自我。

試著就事論事。

也許，你以為的冰山，其實一直想成為你的靠山，只是你很少讓他們有機會接近你。

2024-11-07 Derek: The Hanged Man

Hello, Derek. It's been a while.

Reading your message and conversing with you, I can sense the pain and frustration you’re enduring, trying everything yet still feeling trapped in a deadlock.

As you mentioned, we’re not particularly close; in fact, we barely know each other. During those few days of class, we exchanged small talk, shared a meal, and had a cup of coffee. The bond was brief, yet we still regard each other as friends.

Looking back, it was around this time last year that we met, and your life, just as you planned, took a big step forward when you started your own business this year.

I remember you telling me about your entrepreneurial dream back then. A few hazy images and emotions flashed through my mind. Seeing your proud, radiant expression, I hesitated to say too much, only lightly mentioning a few things, not as a warning but just casual remarks.

Today, as you talk about the challenges and struggles you’re facing, I realize they overlap precisely with the visions I had a year ago, now much clearer.

As a distant friend, I hold no position, role, or right to judge, yet I do feel concerned for you in your current situation.

So, I immediately asked the universe for guidance on your behalf and drew the Tarot card, The Hanged Man.

I'm always amazed by the mysterious insight of Tarot cards. Right now, your situation feels as if a hand is gripping your throat, an unbearable struggle to breathe as you try to break free, yet find no solutions.

After calming down in the evening, I felt the need to reach out more, to suggest that you consider asking your parents for help, only to find that your relationship with them is currently distant and cold.

My intuition is that this could be a good opportunity to reconnect emotionally with your parents. Not only could this alleviate the current strain, but it might also shift the icy dynamic between you all, while possibly resolving your urgent issue.

But your response was immediate—no way you would talk to your parents. Oh! How can you not see? Their support could turn this crisis into an opportunity, benefiting both your business and the atmosphere within your family.

Regarding The Hanged Man card, the key to facing challenges lies in seeking a “reversal” of perspective. The universe is telling you, Derek, that this is a time to learn and accept. Today's situation is closely linked to your communication, coordination, and perception. You’ve evaluated and acted based on your own view, making impulsive decisions without fully accounting for other aspects. And now you’re facing blockages, with people, circumstances, and finances all stalled, squeezed, and at an impasse.

Of course, part of this is due to your youth.

Try to listen. Try to let go of self-centeredness. Try to address matters as they are.

Perhaps what you perceive as a cold, distant iceberg has always wanted to be your support. You’ve just rarely given them the chance to come close.

#DreamCatcher

#Alyson

#Tarot