Do you feel that you cannot love certain people? First stop hating them. Stop being intolerant towards them and criticising them. That can be your first step in the right direction. Then gradually take time to know them to find out what makes them tick, and to find out what it is in you that has created this separation between you and them. Look within yourself and find out what has gone wrong with you and your relationship with them, and never at any time throw the blame onto anyone else. When you can face up to yourself and your own shortcomings, you are on the right path heading in the right direction and will be able to find the perfect solution to your problems. Before you fully realise it, your whole attitude and relationship towards each soul will have changed. You can always do something right now, so why not do it instead of waiting for someone else to take the first step?