2024 1116 小夜:財富 Fortune
親愛的小夜
短短相識的時光裡,剛開始的妳熱情,像是急著要求表現,會一直不斷發出求鼓勵的訊息給妳身旁的人,但不包括我。
我能明白這樣背後的心情。
當一個人對於自己所處的位置感到不踏實,擔憂會被人看出來那虛弱的能力,總會有不同於平常的反應。
我的出現並非是要指摘這部分的狀況,我覺能有默契,能互相,能討論的一起合作是職場上最棒的模式。
知識、技術還是專業,趕快學習,盡快累積,就可以了呀。
態度,是基本。
很可惜的是,對於我思緒的分享妳未能聽進,並沒有放在心裡。
妳整天像個陀螺一直轉,可真正完成的事情卻沒有,連一份資料建檔都分好幾次才完成,妳永遠在重新進入一項工作的進度到哪,因為妳總是被人或事打斷後,就轉頭去忙其他的事情。
沒有邏輯,沒有輕重緩急,沒有選擇性的瞎忙,這讓我擔憂不已。
我也是妳自己不小心說出口才知道原來妳背有靠山。
是我眼拙了。
已經厭倦人情糾葛角力鬥爭的我,很快地就明白這兒不適合我的調性。很快地又有新進人員補上了我那沒坐熱的位置,然後那人跟妳共事相處後即刻跟高階主管請命希望公司可以讓妳離開,因覺妳不合適。
說實在的,這樣的發展讓我驚訝不已。過往,對於不適任的同仁我也是會選擇建議中止勞雇關係,可不會是在如此短的時間就下決定。
從妳的文字裡接收到妳憤怒、生氣的情緒。
於是我請宇宙送給妳祝福,抽到的塔羅是【財富 Fortune】。
找到妳的天賦在哪,很是重要。
也許妳有嚮往的工作或職位,那花時間去了解,是否真對妳合適。
記得嗎?我們剛認識的第一天,我一直跟妳詢問與確認,是否真的想要從事這類型工作?現在一直讓妳有情緒的事情都是這職位工作內容的日常。
妳擁有很好的熱情與積極特質,把這運用發揮在妳擅長的方向,事情就會如抓到風的尾巴,乘風飛翔起來。
2024.11.16 Xiao Ye: Wealth (Fortune)
Dear Xiao Ye,
In the short time we've known each other, you started with an intense enthusiasm, as if eager to prove yourself. You kept sending out messages seeking encouragement to those around you—but not to me.
I can understand the emotions behind this.
When someone feels insecure about their position, worried that their weaknesses might be exposed, they often react differently from their usual self.
My presence wasn’t meant to criticize this; I believe the best workplace dynamic is built on mutual understanding, collaboration, and open discussion.
Knowledge, skills, and expertise—just learn them quickly and accumulate them as soon as you can.
Attitude is the foundation.
Unfortunately, it seems my thoughts didn’t reach you or leave any impression on you.
You were constantly busy, spinning like a top all day long, yet accomplishing little. Even a single task like filing a document required multiple attempts to complete.
You were always restarting your work because you’d get interrupted by people or things, then shift your focus elsewhere.
Lacking logic, prioritization, and discernment, you were stuck in aimless busyness, which worried me deeply.
It was only by accident that I learned you had some backing, something I initially overlooked.
As someone weary of office politics and power struggles, I quickly realized this environment wasn’t a fit for me.
Soon, a new hire replaced me in the position I barely warmed, and after working with you, that person immediately appealed to senior management, suggesting your departure due to perceived unsuitability.
Frankly, I was quite surprised by how things unfolded. In the past, I have recommended terminating employment for colleagues who were unfit for their roles, but never within such a short time frame.
From your messages, I could sense your anger and frustration.
So, I asked the universe to send you a blessing, and the Tarot card drawn was “Wealth (Fortune).”
It is crucial to discover where your talents truly lie. Perhaps you have a dream job or role you admire—take the time to explore whether it genuinely suits you. Do you remember our first day together when I kept asking and confirming whether you truly wanted to pursue this type of work? The things now upsetting you are simply the daily realities of this job.
You have admirable passion and a proactive spirit. If you channel these qualities into an area you excel in, you’ll catch the tailwind and soar.
#DreamCatcher
#Alyson
#Tarot