It takes a lot of courage to realign the people in your life. If you’re a Generator and you’ve got the wrong people in your life, it can be annoying but it isn’t going to impact on your nature. You’re just going to plow through with your powerful motor doing your thing through your response. Ultimately, the environment will change over time.
But for a Projector there is no overwhelming way to get rid of this, you can’t. You can’t afford to have beings in your life that drag you away from what is correct for you; you can’t. Yet, I’m not a fool in saying that I know the risks, I know the dangers, I know the trauma. There are very few adult human beings who are ready to begin their life new.
And it’s not because they don’t want to; it’s because they can’t. They can’t because it’s not on their fractal, or they can’t because they’re so intertwined in their lives—children, lovers, friends, job, whatever the case may be—that there is life on this material plane and for all non-sacral beings that’s always an ordeal because it is not our natural world and our natural state. To be a Projector is to be challenged in its own unique way. The ultimate challenge for a Projector, and I have seen that, I have many Projectors in my life and people that I know well, and I see how hard that part is. Most of it is that there hasn’t been a sharp enough line, a powerful enough tool to provide the insight that is necessary to be able to discern between this one and that.
When you begin to feel those forces in your life consistently pulling you away from your motivation perhaps that what arises in you is a recognition that it cannot go on that way. It can’t; not unless you want to surrender fully to a not-self life and forget about the business of fulfilling your purpose or your cross. Of course, it is not an easy thing for me to say. When I speak to an energy type I only talk about mechanics and I’m only talking about them. And when I talk to a Projector I have to talk about the “them,” the “they,” the other. And of course, that’s quite a thing. It’s an enormous responsibility and you have to be very clear in that.