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連自己都做不到的道理？如何要求別人裝懂相待......



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以行動支持創作者！付費即可解鎖

Aziz Acharki

Samuele Giglio

創作

WMing的沙龍

《心態致勝》重點摘要 | 打破思維框架，成就無限可能

生命似夢，而生活恰似夢裡唱的不同的歌；歲月在建築低語的話，將會在時空繪出感動。

射 手 🏹  箭 矢

工程小撇步 28 真誠的螺絲 I

當妳不惑　心便自在

當妳顧忌　心便掛礙

如是演法　萬教歸愛

學庸96.05.07/11:06

黃培毓的沙龍

【心是個原則】

工程小撇步 27 真誠

事實無須證明，只要落筆，即為真實發生。

什麼都讀。沒有心靈雞湯，也沒有投資秘笈，更沒有人生處方。但以上偶爾還是會有

張摩托的沙龍

活著為了講述

動盪衝突是我，寧靜和諧是我。

束縛是我，自由是我。
強悍是我，溫柔是我。
叛逆是我，乖巧是我。
緊繃是我，放鬆是我。
猶疑是我，堅定是我。

我，是Saraha。
一個充滿矛盾的靈魂。

願世上如我一般矛盾的靈魂，都得以接納、整合真實的自我。

Saraha的尋心之旅

理解了，就不糾結。

來者是客，更是朋友，歡迎啊～♥

伍得塔克的天地

需要智慧

平凡的上班族，30歲才進入股市，喜歡分享個人投資心得，對財報數字充滿好奇心及毅力！目標是打造一條充沛的現金流。

※痞客邦：https://pinwheel3344.pixnet.net/blog

路路通的世界(賣瓜仔)的沙龍

[2024/02/16] 別讓自己陷入那種無知的困境...

學習

閱讀書評

自我成長

文化生活

音樂藝文

建築魔法

電影戲劇

偏門閱讀者

<div class="draft-block draft--p left">讀完我也很感謝那位班導。她不是隨便「兇」的人，她很信任你的為人，真好。她的身教，啟發我們要學習「理解」。謝謝你的分享。</div>

身體尋寶日記

職場

隨思

【啟發不是說教，而是成為更好的自己】

親子與教育

情感

啟發隨想

協助創作者從吸引粉絲到變現專業

《創作者事業研究室》沙龍

工程小撇步

討論區

工程計

建築魔法空間

恰似妳的溫柔

我返自汪洋

長短說

我 孩子

創造新意

自語

情慾

札記

情樂

千秋

心靈

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投資理財

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                <span>旅人小萌</span>
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             謝謝你的回饋。我也很感謝她給出這份理解，因為她的理解，我才能將理解傳出去給周遭的人。</div>