2024 0823 給欣佩的祝福：演員 Actor
可愛的欣佩
今天很高興能有機會跟妳聊聊天。
妳說今天的心情一大早就不是很好，因為跟朋友吵架了。吵架的原因，妳沒說，但一直說著兩人常常這樣吵架，至今兩人沒吵散，但，不知道哪天會有不同的結果。
我聽著，是有點擔憂的。我從來就不認為感情會越吵越好。感情若要越吵越好，是因為後面還有一個溝通、討論、深度聊聊的階段，唯有更加體認到對方的善與關心，感情才會隨著吵架次數增加而建立更為緊密。
吵架，只是一個媒介，一個方式。
吵架，不是結論，不是終點，不是僅止於此。
聊天的過程中知道妳擁有直率、爽朗的個性，加上年紀很輕就進入社會歷練，所以妳的思維，想法，總比周遭同事或朋友更多，更遠，更周全。
妳看事情的角度也比旁人寬廣。
所以有時朋友不懂得妳的觀念和堅持的論點。
這讓妳很挫折。
可，有智慧的妳也有能力面對處理這樣的困境。
祝福妳與朋友今晚微醺地談心。
把事情說開了，心情也就通了。
送給妳我的塔羅祝福 ~ 【Man of Wands 演員】。
來自宇宙的訊息：面對不同的人，不同的角度，不同的看法，說著不同的話。聰穎的妳知道，朋友之間，有時候不須辯論是非對錯，觀點不同罷了，一切都在妳的心中有定數的。
Dear Xinpei,
I'm glad to have the opportunity to chat with you today.
You mentioned that you weren't feeling great this morning because you had an argument with a friend. You didn't specify the reason for the argument, but you mentioned that you two often argue like this. So far, these arguments haven't led to a fallout, but who knows when things might change.
Listening to this, I felt a bit concerned. I've never believed that relationships improve through arguments alone. If arguments are to strengthen a relationship, it’s because there’s a stage of communication, discussion, and deep conversation that follows. Only by gaining a deeper understanding of each other’s kindness and care can a relationship become stronger through the increase in arguments.
An argument is just a medium, a method.
An argument is not a conclusion, nor an endpoint; it doesn't end there.
During our chat, I learned that you have a straightforward and cheerful personality. You entered society at a young age, gaining a lot of experience, so your thoughts and ideas are often more comprehensive and far-reaching than those of your colleagues or friends. Your perspective is also broader than most.
That's why sometimes your friends don't understand your ideas and the points you insist on. This frustrates you. But with your wisdom, you also have the ability to handle and face such challenges.
I wish you and your friend a heartfelt conversation over a few drinks tonight. Once things are spoken out, your feelings will be resolved as well.
I'm sending you my tarot blessing ~ [Man of Wands - The Performer].
A message from the universe: In facing different people, perspectives, and opinions, you say different things. The clever you know that among friends, there’s no need to debate who is right or wrong; it’s just a difference in viewpoints. Everything is already settled in your heart.
