情緒型Projector該如何回應邀請？

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讓我先談談情緒型Projector/導能者/投射者。要成為一個情緒型的人，它需要大量的紀律。該紀律的根本是耐性。一切都是關於耐性的。如果你是一個情緒激動的人，則必須等待（情緒）浪潮沖過。如果你不等待浪潮（平復），其實即是時間，那你就無法做到，也就不會明確。但這也說明了接受導能者生活的矛盾困境。

如果你是非情緒型導能者，那麼你可以當場立即（依賴內在自主權）自發對應邀請：「是，或不」。全部都在那裡。但是，如果你是情緒型導能者，即使收到邀請，你也必須這樣（應對）：「現在不行⋯⋯讓我處理一下⋯⋯給我（一點）時間⋯⋯」如果你是情緒型導能者，沒有人可以強迫你，沒有人有權推你、趕你。這不是你在此的目的，而是要達成交易，就像「是的⋯⋯但是」那種情況，如果你是一位情緒型導能者，那你就有可能獲得全部交易中最好的。因為拒絕是一種如此（強勁）的誘惑。

如果你是一個情緒型導能者，當有人對你說：「我想邀請你參加這一絕妙的事情，與你一起工作將是一件很棒的事情」，在你的潛意識下，都將是「（我是）奴隸，奴隸，我需要（當一個）奴隸⋯⋯」每當你知道他們正在邀請你加入任何奇妙的事情時，你就去找他們（說）：「我必須處理這件事。非常好又很有趣。（但是）我要（時間）去處理。」他們希望你當場做出決定。（他們以為）這是一個很好的優惠（獻議）。（他們會這樣想）我為你提供了很棒的東西，你應該對此感到高興。現實是，如果你像這樣去應對（邀請者），實際上是對方（邀請者）走了並說：「我提高賭注比較好，我不如提供他們更多的東西，我不妨使它更有趣，看起來他們（現在）不會接受（我的獻議）。」

拒絕是難以置信的強大，但是大多數人都害怕它，而情緒型的人最害怕拒絕。真的！如果你是一個情緒型的人，而有人邀請你（畢竟你是一個導能者），而他們邀請你時，那麼你就會知道，這些警鈴、警報器和火箭正在啟動！就像「哇，我受邀了！我現在要說是，因為如果我現在不說是，我可能必須等一輩子才能收到邀請。」那種事。然後你真的遇到了麻煩。你不知道！情緒型的人是⋯⋯「現在無真理，即使知道也沒有真理」你的情緒，（如果）你正在閱讀這個，你不知道到底是怎麼回事，而且幾個月都不會（明白）。

你將通過你的情緒系統來處理它。你看，你現在正處於（情緒）浪潮中的某個位置。這意味著你正在使用某個過濾器接納它。那可能是一個好的過濾器、一個壞的過濾器，或一個介於兩個過濾器之間的過濾器⋯⋯不管甚麼。明天的篩選器是不同的。明天你對此的感覺將與現在有所不同。後天和大後天也將會有所不同，你今天聽到的某些事情（的反應）是：「哦，是的。」明天你卻是「那是什麼？ 我對什麼東西說過『哦！是的』？我不記得了。那件事，那是什麼？」然後，你認為自己該死的了⋯⋯該死！一周後，你又處於早前情緒波浪中同一位置時，你（恍然大悟）地說「哦！是的，現在我明白了！」這就是情緒（作用），當下無真理。

如果你是一個情緒型的人，當你接聽一通來電。你實際上以為你聽到一切。你接到了這個激動人心的電話，正在講電話，（但是）你是個情緒型的人，你應該做的事，就是對於你的情緒波浪位置作出回應。當你聽到某人說某些事情聽起來很糟糕。你再也沒有時間去聽任何好的或剩下的話題了。你所聽到的只是一件事，它實際上擊中了你所處情緒波浪的位置，而你離開了該情緒部分的位置，其餘部份都丟失了。那是第二天或大後天，你才（想起）「哦！是的，但他們也說了⋯⋯」實際上，你在整個情緒之旅中經歷了整個過程。

成為一個情緒型的人就是要瞭解自己的統治力！那就是情緒。一切都在於你的時間上，沒有其他人。你的時間，所以你是一個情緒型的導能者，有人收到了邀請？祝福他們。他們可以等。如果他們想要的東西對他們來說非常重要，那麼它們將不會失去！如果你告訴某人需要等待，而他們不等待，那就悉聽尊便！因為他們永遠不會尊重你。他們永遠不會正確對待你。他們永遠不會看見你是誰。每當情緒型的人在當下做出決定時，無論與誰打交道，都會對他們失去尊重。這就是它的運作方式。它是如此容易⋯⋯

Emotional projector

Let me talk about the emotional projector for a moment. To be an emotional being, it demands an enormous amount of discipline. The discipline is fundamentally patience. It's all about patience . If you are an emotional being you gotta wait out the wave. If you don’t wait out the wave, which is just time, then you can't, you can't be clear. But it also says something else about the dilemma of accepting a projectors life.

If you're a non-emotional projector the invitation is something you can deal with in the moment, spontaneous, invitation Yes/no. It’s all there. But if you're an emotional projector, even when the invitation comes, you have to go like this: “not now… let me process it… give me time…” If you're an emotional projector, nobody can push you, nobody is allowed to push you, rush you. This is not what you're here for and that is getting your deal, the yes-but-thing, if you're an emotional projector, you have the potential of getting the best deal of all. Because rejection is such a seduction.

You are an emotional projector and somebody says to you “I want to invite you to this terrific thing and it would be great to work with you” underneath of course the subconscious is going “slave, slave, I need to slave…” whatever you know they're inviting you into this terrific thing and you go to them “I have to processes his. Very nice and interesting. I'm going to process”. They want you to make that decision right then and there. This is a great offer. I'm offering you something terrific, you should be jumping at this. The reality is, by going like this, what actually happens is the other person goes away and says: “I better up the ante, I better offer them more, I better make it more exciting, it looks like they're not going to take it.”

Rejection is incredibly powerful most people are afraid of it and emotional people are afraid of it the most. They are! if you are an emotional person and somebody invites you and your projector after all and they invite you, you know, there's these bells and sirens and rockets going off! It's like wow, I've been invited! I'm going to say yes right now, because if I don't say yes right now, I may have to wait the rest of my life for an invitation. That kind of thing. And then you really get into trouble. You have no idea! Emotional people… “no truth in the now, no truth in the know” your emotional, you're reading this and you have no idea what the hell's going on and you won't for months.

You are going to process it through your emotional system. You know, you're on a certain place in your wave right now. Which means you're taking it in with a certain filter. That may be a good filter, a bad filter, an in between filter… Whatever the hell it is. Tomorrow the filters is different. Tomorrow how you feel about this is going to be different than what it is now. And it is going to be different the day after tomorrow and the day after that and there are certain things that you heard today, that you go “oh yeah”. Tomorrow you're going go “what was that? What was that thing that I said “oh yeah” to? I can’t remember that. That thing, what was that? Then you think hell it's lost… dammit! A week later, here in the same place in your wave that you were here when you got that “oh yeah now I got it!” It is what it is to be emotional, there is no truth in the now.

If you're an emotional person you get a telephone call. You actually think you're hearing everything. You get this emotional call, you’re on the phone, you’re emotional being, all you're doing is reacting to where your wave is. So there you hear something that somebody is saying that sounds bad. You never have the time to hear what's good or the rest of the conversation. All you hear is that one thing, that actually hits where you are on your wave and off you are on that part of your wave and the rest of it is lost. It's the next day or the day after you go “oh yeah but they also said”… Actually, you go through this whole thing in this whole emotional trip.

Being an emotional being is about understanding that you rule! That's what it is to be emotional. Everything's on your time, nobody else. Your time, so you’re an emotional projector and somebody's got an invitation? Good for them. They can wait. If what they want is important enough for them, they're not going to run away! If you tell somebody to wait and they don't wait, good riddance! Because they are never going to respect you. They're never going to treat you correctly. They're never going to see you for who you are. Every time an emotional person makes a decision in the moment, whoever they're dealing with, has lost respect for them. It’s just the way that it works. It's so easy…