2.如何判斷一個人是否心虛

　　詩人和劇作家莎士比亞曾說過：「人們常用其伪裝的外表和虔誠的行為，掩飾一顆魔鬼般的內心。」

有一個喜歡捉弄人的英國名流，有一天他玩興大發，向12個在社會上德高望重的名人發出一封電報。電報內容只有簡短幾個字：「東窗事發，速離此地。」

　　據說，在24小時內，那12個名人全部都離開國境。

1. 觀察他做事的態度，是否沉穩可靠、不會隨便抱怨、動怒。

2. 看這個人是否有同理心能夠感受到別人的痛苦，懂得換位思考。

3. 觀察他如何對待生活周遭的弱勢群體和需要幫助的人。

1. 觀察他平時的言行舉止，是否嫉惡如仇、樂於助人、懂得回饋社會。

2. 觀察他身邊的朋友都是什麼類型的人。

3. 留意他對待家人的態度和關係，是否心懷感恩，關懷珍惜親人。

　　有些人外在表現的一切都只是做給別人看的伪善，但心中其實存在不可告人的秘密，所謂作賊心虛，若沒有做虧心事，就不怕東窗事發。魔鬼藏在細節裡，唯有我們仔細觀察，細心留意，才能發現身邊的這個人是否問心無愧。

　　路遙知馬力，日久見人心。善良，是一個人最高尚的品德，長期始終如一維護著自己良知的人，內心坦蕩，無愧於天地，更無愧於自己。

The poet and playwright Shakespeare once said, "People often disguise a devilish heart with their disguised appearances and pious deeds."

There was a British celebrity who liked to tease people, and one day he had a lot of fun, sending a telegram to 12 celebrities who were highly respected in society.

The telegram consisted of only a few short words: "The East Window Incident occurred, get out of here quickly."

It is said that within 24 hours, all 12 celebrities had left the country.

1. Observe his attitude towards doing things, whether he is calm and reliable, and will not complain or get angry.

2. See if this person has empathy, can feel the pain of others, and know-how to think differently.

3. Observe how he treats the vulnerable and needy people around him.

1. Observe his usual words and deeds, whether he is jealous and hateful, helpful, and knows how to give back to society.

2. Observe what type of people his friends are around him.

3. Pay attention to his attitude and relationship with his family, whether he is grateful, cares for, and cherishes his relatives.

Shakespeare's classic quote:

What matters is not what the eyes see, but what is felt through the heart. Some people show that everything they show on the outside is only hypocrisy for others to see, but there are ulterior secrets in their hearts, the so-called thieves have weak hearts, if they do not do bad things, they are not afraid of the East Window Incident.

The road knows the horsepower, and the people's hearts are seen for a long time. Kindness is the noblest virtue of a person, a person who has always maintained his conscience for a long time, with a frank heart, worthy of heaven and earth, and even more ashamed of himself.