2024 1118 28女孩：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1118 28女孩：欣喜者 Rejoicer

28女孩

跟家人吵架，心情非常不好。

妳說，妳道歉的呀，可對方就是不接受。

妳說，長輩跟妳說，即使是兄弟姊妹，長大了，各自發展，各自在不同的地方生活，感情也就隨著距離淡了。而妳不想要這樣的事情發生。

這要怎麼說呢？

不僅是長大才明白，在孩童時期我們就都經歷過，不是心中所想的事情一定會實現，不是心裡所渴望的事情就會成真，甚至不是想要的東西就一定會擁有和實現滿足的喜悅。

感情，更是最不可捉模了。

沒有獲得過，沒有實現過，很難過。

獲得過，實現過，卻又失去了，這個會造成更難過的心情。

可至少曾經擁有過，最後我們總是不得不這樣安慰自己。

就因為這樣，我提了老生常談的話語 ~ 珍惜。尤其是現在。

妳說，妳很擔憂以後。

我跟妳說，以後，會如何，真的不知道，現在擔憂，太早，不是說到以後的時候，就一切都很美好，而是現在的情況都讓人心力交瘁了，哪有辦法顧及到以後。

何況，妳會成長，別人會改變。

所謂的以後，可想像，但不一定會成真。

現在就煩惱以後，心太累。

請求宇宙給予28女孩 ~你，祝福。

抽到的塔羅牌是【欣喜者 Rejoicer】。

看來，跟吵架的家人，和好了。

兩個女孩在沙發上，靠在一起嘰嘰喳喳的，吵得很。

她推妳一下，妳故意擠一下她，兩個女孩此時放鬆、自在又開心的笑容，很美。

這樣棒的情景，這樣好的心情，就好好享受，不須在此時，也不需常煩憂以後。

為了未知而煩惱，如同打拳在棉花上，無力又沒勁。

為妳開心！

和好了，又是笑嘻嘻的生活了。

2024/11/18 28 Girl: Rejoicer

28 Girl

You had a fight with your family and feel very upset.

You said you apologized, but the other side just wouldn’t accept it.

You said an elder once told you, “Even siblings, as they grow up, develop their own paths, live in different places, and the bond fades with distance.” But you don’t want this to happen.

How should I put this?

It’s not just something we come to understand as adults; we’ve experienced it as children too. Not everything we imagine will come true. Not everything we yearn for in our hearts will materialize. And not everything we desire will be ours to enjoy.

Relationships, in particular, are the most elusive.

When you’ve never had it or achieved it, it feels painful.

When you’ve had it, achieved it, but lost it again, it feels even worse.

At least we once had it—that’s how we always end up consoling ourselves.

Because of this, I brought up the old cliché: cherish it, especially now.

You said you’re very worried about the future. I told you, as for the future, no one really knows how it will unfold. Worrying about it now is premature. This doesn’t mean that everything will be wonderful in the future; it’s just that the present already leaves us drained, with no energy to think about the future.

Besides, you will grow, and others will change. The so-called “future” is something you can imagine, but it may not necessarily come true. Worrying about the future now only exhausts the heart.

I pray for the universe to bless 28 Girl—you.

The Tarot card drawn is Rejoicer. It seems you’ve reconciled with the family member you fought with.

Two girls sit on a couch, leaning on each other and chattering away noisily.

She nudges you; you playfully nudge her back. At this moment, the two girls share relaxed, carefree, and joyful smiles. It’s beautiful.

This wonderful scene, this happy feeling—just savor it.

There’s no need to dwell on the future at this moment, nor to frequently worry about it. Worrying about the unknown is like punching a pillow—weak and pointless.

I’m happy for you!

You’ve made up, and life is filled with smiles again.

#DreamCatcher

#Alyson

#Tarot