<div class=draft-block draft--p left>那天有個朋友問:</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>「他已經不是初犯了,我到底該不該再原諒他?</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>是不是我不夠好,所以才不被珍惜?」</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>其實,在感情裡,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>外來客的來訪..是很常見的問題,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>初犯,他還配擁有被適切的思考原諒與否,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>再犯,他已經不懂愛情的實質,原諒不適合,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>累犯,他其實並不值得擁有愛情。</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>但並不是每個人都有隨心選擇的機會,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>現實生活的層面還被考慮在其中,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>我這麼回答她:</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>「先撇開原諒與否的問題,先轉焦在你的身上,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>第一📷你沒有不夠好,相反地你很好📷</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>第二📷不是你不值得被珍惜,而是遇到不懂的人。</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>第三📷原諒會不會是為下次埋下震撼彈?</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>在你們沒有婚姻束縛,離開很明智,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>一旦步入婚姻後,你再碰上第三次,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>那你現實層面的思考就更加複雜了。」</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>應該也常聽過,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>我不能沒有他,沒有他我不知道我該怎麼辦?</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>這懦弱的想法只是推自己進入深淵罷了!</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>在感情裡,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>沒有非誰不可📷</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>更沒有一個人無法面對的可能📷</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>愛情可以很簡單,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>就不要把他複雜化,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>大多時候,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>我們只是習慣了,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>習慣他在、習慣有他..</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>習慣是能改的,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>對於一個不懂珍惜自己的人認真,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>那你真的輸了世界輸了自己。</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>裂痕難補卻也並非補不足,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>或許有痕跡,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>但懂錯並願意改變的就可以考慮再試試..</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>但給了機會又不懂珍惜的..</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>你認為呢?</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>不要用自己的善良和愛情去換一個慣性背叛的人。</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>她成熟了,因為她選擇相信自己。</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>同時,她也明白被背叛不是因為自己不夠好,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>而是對方不懂自己的定位和責任,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>不選擇背叛的人..</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>是因為他明白何可為何不可為📷</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>不是因為她不夠本錢,</div> <pre class=public-DraftStyleDefault-pre draft-block><pre class=draft--code-block>自信由心而生,幸福由念而入。</pre></pre> <ul> <li class=draft-block draft--li><a href=https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E6%AC%BA%E9%A8%99%E5%92%8C%E9%9A%B1%E7%9E%9E%E6%98%AF%E6%9C%80%E6%AE%98%E5%BF%8D%E7%9A%84?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZV-V6oyiwj6zr9z8OjKbkS6uEeQaHf3tAXje4251wRy9iw4UA1Dgh-D4o7CNs_RKg0AOV8JRPbsqU9Ierk_NtrhCDBHOHIPAuhcWXCxvbpBUmbR668OKj_qY89LknzEqBI&__tn__=*NK-R 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