<div class=draft-block draft--p left>最近鬧的沸沸揚揚的感情事件<br>你當了助手或是推手?</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>我想…<br>大部份的人都在無形中當了助手,<br>幫助你認為受屈的那方,<br>將另外一個人推向絕境,<br>但卻不自知,<br>如此和你們口中最憤恨的霸凌者有何不同?<br>縱使,<br>他們是公眾人物,<br>但他們依然擁有他們的隱私權,<br>我們有何權利因此給予施霸?<br>只因為你們覺得他做錯?<br>只因為你們的打抱不平?<br>試問,<br>當事者是二人以上嗎?<br>為什麼二人間的問題要拖下其他無辜者?<br>在一步步被推向深淵的人<br>他家人的心情會是如何?<br>他們所承擔的又會有多少?<br>今天就算他錯的再多,<br>有資格教訓他的,<br>除了當事者和他的家人,<br>其他的我們算什麼?<br>我們可以論對錯,<br>但沒有必要把一個人攤在陽光下霸凌,<br>這樣我們和殘酷的霸凌著有何不同?<br>在別人的感情世界裡,<br>我們只是觀眾,<br>就如同棋盤上所言『觀棋不語真君子』。<br>女孩說…<br>攤上檯面只為了不讓其他女子受傷,<br>攤上檯面只希望讓男人罪狀公諸於世,<br>試問…<br>如今的一切不就都走了樣?<br>受傷了除了A女孩還有B女孩…更甚CDE…<br>讓錯誤者負起責任這是對的,<br>但讓無誤者承擔,就真的太殘忍了。<br><a 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