- 小孩：“爸，等我們結婚生小孩後，你想幹嘛？”
- 我回答：“我想環遊世界，體驗每個國家的當地生活，用眼睛探索未知的世界領域。”
這段對話是孩子經常問我的。其實，我常常在想，孩子是我們內心的鏡子，也可以說孩子是我們內心中的那個自我。
夢想是大人的慾望，當慾望越大，痛苦也會隨之而增。然而，對於還在幼稚園階段的孩子來說，只要是生活周遭的一切，都是他們的樂園。一個滑鼠、一枝筆、一張紙，對他們來說，都像是可以玩的玩具。 大人呢？連我自己都無法回答這個問題，因為我也有我的慾望和我想要的東西。這幾年，我開始下廚，並且改變飲食習慣，變得清淡。煮飯也變得越來越簡單，就像我家大兒子問我的那樣。
- 小孩：“爸，你煮的飯都很好吃，是加了什麼秘方嗎？”
- 我回答：“愛吧。”
每當我看著孩子們在家裡嬉戲，笑聲傳來，我的心中便充滿了溫暖。
這些年，我不僅學會了如何煮一頓美味的飯菜，更學會了如何用心去愛，用愛去經營這個家。愛，是最簡單也是最深刻的調味料，它讓平凡的生活變得豐富多彩，讓每一天都充滿了希望與美好。 這段旅程，讓我明白了許多。無論是環遊世界，還是簡單地陪伴在家人身邊，最重要的，都是用心去體驗和感受。生活中的每一個瞬間，都值得我們去珍惜。無論未來如何，我都會記得，簡單和愛，是我們永遠的依靠。
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簡單和愛，而不是追求無止境的慾望
My child asked me, “Dad, what do you want to do when we get married and have kids?”
I replied, “I want to travel the world and experience the local life in every country.
I answered, “I want to travel around the world, experience the local life in each country, and explore the uncharted territories with my eyes.”
My children often ask me this question. In fact, I often think that our children are the mirror of our inner selves, or we can say that our children are our inner selves. A dream is like an adult's desire, and as the desire grows, so does the pain. However, for children in kindergarten, everything around them is their playground. A mouse, a pen, a piece of paper are all toys for them to play with.
What about adults? Even I can't answer this question because I also have my own desires and wants. In the past few years, I started cooking and changed my diet to a lighter one. Cooking has become easier and easier, as my oldest son asked me.
“Dad, all your rice is delicious. Is there a secret ingredient you add?”
I smiled and replied, “Love.”
It was a short, unintentional comment, but it made me realize the power of simplicity. In the past, I only read this in a book: as long as there is love in a family, no amount of money or desire can affect the cohesion of the whole family. Life is like a glass of water, no matter how much or how little, no matter how full or how scarce, simple thoughts can make a difference in the atmosphere and influence of oneself and one's family.
Looking back over the years, my children have taught me so much through their innocence and their wild ideas. The true meaning of life is not to pursue those vain desires, but to learn simplicity and enjoy the moment. The children's carefree and joyful behavior has made me re-examine my inner self and find the peace and satisfaction that I have not experienced for a long time.
Whenever I see my children playing in the yard and the sound of laughter coming from them, my heart is filled with warmth. Over the years, I have not only learned how to cook a delicious meal, but also learned how to love with all my heart and operate this home with love. Love is the simplest and most profound seasoning, it makes ordinary life colorful and makes every day full of hope and beauty.
This journey has taught me a lot. Whether you are traveling around the world or simply accompanying your family, the most important thing is to experience and feel with your heart. Every moment in life is worth cherishing. No matter what happens in the future, I will always remember that simplicity and love are our eternal reliance.
The following is----
"Simplicity and love, not the pursuit of endless desire."
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