
在真實的世界中，單戀是不存在的。
何謂「真實」的世界？我們在市面上所看到的講述有關依戀、戀愛的書籍及許多影視作品，都在講述我們是如何用「投射」去看待他人。由投射出發的關係跟感情，必然會帶因為了解而失望，如果因為投射而進入了婚姻，婚姻則會成為愛情的墳墓。我們現在普遍認為投射是戀愛感的必要條件，愛情注

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<div class="draft-block draft--p left">在真實的世界中，單戀是不存在的。</div>
<div class="draft-block draft--p left">何謂「真實」的世界？我們在市面上所看到的講述有關依戀、戀愛的書籍及許多影視作品，都在講述我們是如何用「投射」去看待他人。由投射出發的關係跟感情，必然會帶因為了解而失望，如果因為投射而進入了婚姻，婚姻則會成為愛情的墳墓。我們現在普遍認為投射是戀愛感的必要條件，愛情注定是不圓滿的，但事實上真的是如此嗎？</div>

Kunal Shinde

在真實的世界中，單戀是不存在的。

何謂「真實」的世界？我們在市面上所看到的講述有關依戀、戀愛的書籍及許多影視作品，都在講述我們是如何用「投射」去看待他人。由投射出發的關係跟感情，必然會帶因為了解而失望，如果因為投射而進入了婚姻，婚姻則會成為愛情的墳墓。我們現在普遍認為投射是戀愛感的必要條件，愛情注定是不圓滿的，但事實上真的是如此嗎？

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