How to find a suitable nanny

The influence of babysitters on the development of young children is obvious. Sometimes it is not subtle, but direct teaching and learning. The formation of conditioned reflexes in young children requires the stimulation and strengthening of the nanny to a large extent. Young children are in the imitation period, and the nanny's mind, principles of life, ways of doing things, and even posture, speech and demeanor have become the objects of imitation for infants and young children. What are the factors to consider when choosing a nanny?

1. Physical examination is not allowed.

2. Mental health cannot be ignored. Because a nanny with a child has a lot of contact with the child, her psychology will subtly affect the child all the time, so when parents are looking for a nanny, they should properly consider the nanny's physical condition and psychological quality, and try to avoid the nanny's negative impact on the child's development. . So, what qualities should a nanny have in terms of psychology?

optimistic nature. A lively, cheerful, talkative and laughing nanny can make children infected with "joy", which is conducive to the formation of a lively and cheerful personality, and can help stimulate children's language development. Suggestion: Parents can consider asking someone who is young and full of youthful vigor to be a nanny.

Patience and compassion. A nanny without compassion and patience is certainly not up to the job. Some unsympathetic nannies may physically punish children in their absence, an issue that needs to be brought to the attention of parents.

Strong language and logical thinking. Getting along with a nanny who speaks and thinks illogically is not conducive to the development of children's intelligence and language.

Self-confidence, neither humble nor overbearing. A nanny who has no self-confidence, humbles her in front of her employer, and her inferiority complex and performance will also be passed on to her children intentionally or unintentionally.

Behavior is good. A nanny spends a lot of time with children, and her words and deeds are easily imitated by children. Therefore, a nanny with good behavior habits can undoubtedly become the best role model for children.

3. Pay attention to the choice of age. Young nannies lack experience in raising children, compared with older nannies who are already mothers, their love, sense of responsibility, parenting experience and ability to deal with emergency problems will be stronger.

4. The cultural quality of the nanny. If the nanny graduated from junior high school or high school and has mastered some basic cultural knowledge, she can't help but use it. For example, often introduce the surrounding things, natural phenomena, etc. to young children. At the same time, it can better help young children understand the world around them, satisfy their curiosity and thirst for knowledge, and promote their intellectual development.

5. Nanny's personality traits and certain expertise. If the nanny is lively, cheerful, kind and generous, it will affect the character of the child subtly; if the nanny is taciturn and not good at getting along with others, the child will follow suit. The advantages and disadvantages of the nanny's personality are likely to become potential factors in the child's personality. If the nanny has certain specialties, such as singing, painting, and handicrafts, the children's corresponding interests will be cultivated and developed by leaps and bounds.