愛自己、活出你的設計

原文發佈於：2021/06/10 【三顧茅蘆，被看見的美】"請邀請我" 。投射者俱樂部

Love yourself

Do you realize that in every description I give you about all of these aspects, the real solution in terms of being able to provide or offer them advice that can be beneficial to their relationship, it always returns to themselves? It always returns to who they are and how they live their life and do they live their life according to their nature.

If you're living your life according to your nature, this is the thing. It's not about the relationship that you may be in now. It is about the connections that you will make today and tomorrow and the next day and the day after that. It is about beginning to see that if you're operating correctly, you begin to change the way in which you connect to the other and the problems that seem so obvious in the not-self way of connecting to people, most of those problems just peter away, at least from your side of the perspective. So much of what it means to be with the other is what it is to be within ourselves.

My teaching is not „ love thy neighbour.' I don't have anything against loving your neighbour, though I've never had that occasion. My thing is you love yourself. If you can love yourself and if you can love what is yourself in the sense that it is you, it is what is correct about you, it is your differentiated self, you are your only authority, then you're really open to love.

It doesn't mean it's going to be there. It just means that you're really open to it. And you're not carrying any conditions. You're not carrying any 'it's got to be this or that, or this way or that way.' It all begins with the self and it all begins with the way in which you operate in this life.

The first thing you're going to look at when looking at their designs, you have to see their nature and these combinations of Type. It doesn't do any good to tell a Generator who's with a Projector that this is an enormous mistake and get divorced. It doesn't do any good. What you can do in most of these cases is that by returning them to themselves and by giving them a hint of what's possible when as themselves they come together, they can begin to see the real benefit that is inherent in the relationship. But most of the things we're here to offer them are things that bring relief. The separate bedroom brings relief. Knowing how to make decisions together brings relief. These are things that are very, very important for us.

Human Design is not able to tell what job is good or not good. Nor are we able to tell you that. Human design offers a tool to tell it to yourself, to find out yourself. It's called Strategy and Authority. The reality is that to make a difference in your life you make a difference in your life on the surface, on the mundane plane, the things that you do every day, the way in which you live your life and if you live it correctly, that is, if you live it according to your Strategy and Authority then you get the process that is correct for you and the direction in this life that is correct for you.