在《納瓦爾寶典》中,納瓦爾有一句極其精準的洞察:
他也說:「幸福其實是平靜的副產品。」
(“I think of happiness as an emergent property of peace.”)
「平靜是靜止的幸福,而幸福是流動的平靜。」
(“Peace is happiness at rest, and happiness is peace in motion.”)
這些話讓我開始重新審視自己過往追求「快樂」的方式。
我曾經以為:
任職於某些特定產業能代表我的個人價值。
我以為只要達到某種職涯身分,就能獲得持久的快樂、認可與安全感。
但真正的感受卻是:這種「快樂」非常短暫,而且往往伴隨更多焦慮。
因為我並不是在追求真正的快樂,而是在追逐一種「看起來應該會快樂」的外在標籤。
這種追逐,是納瓦爾口中的外部評分系統(external scorecards),
而外部評分系統永遠無法帶來內心的平靜。
當我把職涯身份當作自我價值的來源,我的情緒就被外界綁定:
- 行業越光鮮,我越覺得自己有價值
- 當光環不再,我的價值感瞬間下跌
- 內在永遠不安穩,因為害怕失去標籤
納瓦爾提醒我們:
幸福不是追來的,而是當你擁有平靜之後自然流出的狀態。
當我不再讓職涯身份定義自己,我的心反而安靜了。
因為我明白:
真正重要的不是「我在哪個產業」,
而是:
- 我是否正在成長
- 我是否以自己的方式生活
- 我是否忠於自己的步伐
平靜,才是幸福的起點。
而我正在學習讓幸福從平靜裡自然生長。
In The Almanack of Naval Ravikant, Naval offers a profound insight:
“Happiness is an emergent property of peace.”
He expands on it by saying:
“Peace is happiness at rest, and happiness is peace in motion.”
These ideas made me reflect on how I once chased happiness.
For a long time, I believed:
Working in certain prestigious industries would define my personal worth.
I assumed that achieving a particular career identity would bring lasting happiness and validation.
But the reality was quite different—the happiness was brief, and the anxiety persisted.
Looking back, I wasn't pursuing true happiness.
I was chasing an external label that merely looked like happiness.
This aligns with Naval's concept of the external scorecard—a value system controlled by others, not by ourselves.
When career identity becomes the source of self-worth, our emotions become externally dictated:
- The more glamorous the industry, the more valuable we feel
- When the shine fades, our sense of worth collapses
- Inner peace becomes impossible, because everything depends on external validation
Naval reminds us:
Happiness isn't something you chase—it arises naturally once you cultivate peace.
When I stopped letting career labels define me, I began to feel more grounded.
Because I finally understood:
What matters most is not which industry I belong to,
but whether:
- I'm growing
- I'm living authentically
- I'm moving at my own pace
Peace is the foundation.
Happiness grows from there.












