<h2 class=lexical__h2 dir=ltr><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>以上這兩句話,很生活,很常聽到,很正常。</span></h2><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><br></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>但這兩句話,如果是</span><b><code spellcheck=false style=white-space: pre-wrap;><strong class=lexical__textBold lexical__textCode>家長回答孩子的『答案』</strong></code></b><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>。</span></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><br></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>而孩子的『</span><b><code spellcheck=false style=white-space: pre-wrap;><strong class=lexical__textBold lexical__textCode>提問</strong></code></b><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>』是:</span></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><b><strong class=lexical__textBold style=white-space: pre-wrap;>❦ 您們覺得我高二要念自然組?還是社會組?</strong></b></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>或是</span></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><b><strong class=lexical__textBold style=white-space: pre-wrap;>❦ 您們覺得我大學要念哪個校系?</strong></b></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>或是</span></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><b><strong class=lexical__textBold style=white-space: pre-wrap;>❦ 您們覺得我暑假(寒假),要不要去打工?</strong></b></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>或是</span></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><b><strong class=lexical__textBold style=white-space: pre-wrap;>❦ 您們覺得我要不要參加那個比賽(或計畫)?</strong></b></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>或是</span></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><b><strong class=lexical__textBold style=white-space: pre-wrap;>❦ 您們覺得我要選擇哪個社團?</strong></b></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>或是</span></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><b><strong class=lexical__textBold style=white-space: pre-wrap;>❦ 您們覺得我要去補習嗎?</strong></b></p><p class=lexical__paragraph><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>……</span></p><p class=lexical__paragraph><br></p><h2 class=lexical__h2 dir=ltr><b><strong class=lexical__textBold style=white-space: pre-wrap;>以上這類提問</strong></b><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>,</span></h2><h2 class=lexical__h2 dir=ltr><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>若家長只是回答「這你自己決定,不要問我。」</span></h2><h2 class=lexical__h2 dir=ltr><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>怎麼會讓我覺得,</span></h2><h2 class=lexical__h2 dir=ltr><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>有股淡淡的哀傷呢?</span></h2><h2 class=lexical__h2 dir=ltr><br><br></h2><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><br></p><h2 class=lexical__h2 dir=ltr><br><br></h2><div class=lexical__image center><div class=lexical__imageWrapper><img src=https://d2a6d2ofes041u.cloudfront.net/resize?compression=6&norotation=true&url=https%3A%2F%2Fimages.vocus.cc%2Fc88b2a6e-6f90-42b6-82a3-f4d8d7209ca4.png&width=740&sign=lZi56fY64fLjLv4k93RJKXWGwyozrokJO_zSUQ1O_0E data-src=https://d2a6d2ofes041u.cloudfront.net/resize?compression=6&norotation=true&url=https%3A%2F%2Fimages.vocus.cc%2Fc88b2a6e-6f90-42b6-82a3-f4d8d7209ca4.png&width=740&sign=lZi56fY64fLjLv4k93RJKXWGwyozrokJO_zSUQ1O_0E class=lazy data-original-src=https://images.vocus.cc/c88b2a6e-6f90-42b6-82a3-f4d8d7209ca4.png data-lowquality=true data-width=1000 data-height=857 alt=圖片引自「Mr. Egg 蛋先生」></div><div class=captionTheme__wrapper><a class=captionTheme__link href=https://pixo.style/EGG-048 target=_blank rel=noreferrer noopener>圖片引自「Mr. Egg 蛋先生」</a></div></div><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><br></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><br></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><br></p><p class=lexical__paragraph><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>##</span></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><a target=_blank href=https://vocus.cc/article/65fadef2fd89780001d63412 class=lexical__mention article-icon>親子公事之外的對話 ∣菜b導日記∣倒數742天</a></p>