（3）Enlightenment (Meditation)

#They all use mechanical translation, and my English is not good. 　What exactly is a human being? Why work so hard?

Some people have found their way, and some people are still confused. 　

Let's talk about Maslow's eight needs. 　Psychologist Abraham Maslow presented his views on psychology in a 1943 paper published in the journal Psychological Review (A Theory of Human Motivation).

　Physiology, safety, love and belonging, respect, cognition, aesthetics, self-realization, and transcendence needs, a total of eight were later changed to five.

So I use the five parts. 　 But these five are not remembered, or are they "in the wrong order"? First of all, you have to understand that [moving forward] when you can't go up you get stuck in that need.

　 Maslow was a psychologist, so the traitors must be missing something. 　

1. Physiological Needs Physiological needs are the most basic needs, and they are usually necessary for human beings to continue their lives, such as: food, water, shelter, sleep and other needs. 2. (Security Needs) Also known as protection needs, it refers to people's needs to be free from fear, danger and deprivation, such as the security of property, food, home and transportation, etc. 3. Affiliation Needs It includes the needs of family, giving, socializing, belonging, making friends and friendships, also known as "love and belonging needs", such as falling in love, getting married and having children, or participating in various club activities, hometown associations and other organizations. 4. (Esteem Needs) This includes self-confidence and recognition and respect by their peer groups, a need that is usually met by power, reputation, status, and self-confidence. 5. Self-actualisation Needs The need for self-actualization refers to an individual's full potential for self. In this hierarchy of needs, people expect to realize their potential, grow themselves, and realize themselves. However, the first requirement seems simple, but some people fail here. The birth environment, the family problem, the peace talk [forward] so it is not necessary to achieve it "in order".

After all, Maslow just ranked people's needs, and no one knows whether they can be achieved subsequently.

However, these needs are created, and being created by the "self" are all related to the group... How to create?

Let's talk about the three social needs first, he gave a lot, but the focus is on "love", but some people have become the love that they are cheap but don't know to be loved [attention] A little child because his parents like his sister, so he uses hurt himself to get "love", so he understands that only "hurt" can have "love" In the past, a child longs to be loved, so he has always been obedient, no matter what he does, he has become a puppet invisibly. (only to flatter) So... How to meet the third need? All I can say is to "love yourself" before you desire to be loved by others (Don't "crave" others to love you [long or shortly] love yourself first) ( ) How to love yourself link

So why love yourself? What's the use? If you think it's useless to love yourself... Do you want to give the ghosts your body, I think they will love them more than you.

　You crave others to love you, but you ignore yourself Is it worth it to "trade your own pain for the love of others"?

Is it really okay to "mock yourself in exchange for the attention of others (teasing, ridiculing)"? 　(Sacrificed everything he had just to be loved for a minute...)

　Because he "desperately" wants to be loved, he ignores himself, so he tramples on himself for a simple "love"

　In this we consider the fourth self-esteem need 　I think the most important thing in this need is the word "self-confidence", although there is a mention of power, reputation, and status.

　But I don't think these three are necessarily needed, "I'm embarrassed when I'm embarrassed by others", "When I'm unswerving, no one can stop me" Enough self-confidence that... Aren't the first three the fruit of it?

　There were many thinkers in ancient times, but it was "Confucius" who appeared again and again in textbooks 　 　 　Confucius traveled around the world, not to sell his doctrines in a daze, but to find a place where he could be trusted, to promote his political ideals, and to make the world stable.

In each country he visited, he had to observe the local political situation, on the one hand, to assess whether it was necessary to stay, and on the other hand, to think about the appropriate way to govern it, so that when someone asked, he could give corresponding opinions.

　Seeing the starvation of his classmates and friends, Zhong You angrily asked Confucius, "Is it true that a gentleman is as poor as a villain?" Confucius replied, "A gentleman who is poor does not change his virtue, and a villain who is poor will behave indiscriminately."

　Confucius certainly felt the threat of death, but he did not lose his enthusiasm, but always adhered to his original belief and insisted on promoting the great road in the world.

　Along the way, Confucius and his teachers met many reclusive sages who raised objections to Confucius's approach. 　

For example, he said to Zhong You, The whole world is in the same chaos, and who can change it?

Instead of following a person who cannot get along with others, you should simply follow a person who does not have anything to do with the world."Confucius heard this 　

He said with emotion, "I can't join the flock of birds and beasts, and if I'm not with people, who am I going to be with? If there was a way in the world, I wouldn't change it."

　When Confucius traveled around the world, he met all kinds of people and things, and he still insisted on the time but continued to believe, if he did not have self-confidence, could he persevere?

　Confucius was not an aristocrat, just an ordinary commoner, but in the process he continued to carry out his own beliefs, and did not bow his head when he encountered the words of others, is this not suitable for learning?

　What does a group mean? Do you want to be "formed" or "unformed" The group does not have to fit in, after all, there is "exclusion" in the group. Traveled many times (because you have self-confidence to persevere)

　However, Confucius's behavior is exactly that the meaning of a group should be people who share the same philosophy, goals and identity, and dreams.

　For example, the Marine Conservation Society, the Society for the Protection of Animals, the Society for the Protection of Crime Victims, and so on, and they're all about goodness, goodness for the environment, goodness for people.

　But it's not like some fraud syndicates, doxxers, and people who like to be traitors, they show "evil" Don't talk to me about any "predicament"

A bunch of things that don't have them! Confucius said: A gentleman who is poor will not change his virtue, and a villain who is poor will do anything wrong. 　What is there to talk about? How?

So why can't groups focus only on "goodness"? insist on being traitors! This is worse than beggars! Beggars are just begging At the beginning, which one of the groups mentioned is not "good"?

　However... How long can this good last, or whether it can be sustained. You must know that age is one of them, standing up is another, the loneliness in the world is different from others, but if you die in battle to give the world sober willing?

"Planetary crisis" I'm sorry... has been advocating and telling, how many people have listened?"Famine" comes~ Students, watch the video, this is the current situation in ×× country, so...."Empathy" must know that her ability is less than yours, so..."Bullying" classmates, we have to have love...

...... It's really ridiculous, what Confucius said makes me feel very reasonable and meaningful, especially those who are older than me and have more knowledge than me.

If only the world could be free of evil... Is that okay? I don't know, it's not something I can do alone, but if only when the "crisis" comes, I notice those groups that have "existed for a long time" and join and help...

It's ridiculous, what am I capable of? I'm just a person who likes to write stories, but I understand that it's too late for a crisis.

　Some people are “happy"because they are "rich" Some people are “sad" because they are "poor" But why do people always say that [money is not enough?

Is it really unhappiness to be "poor"?

I know, I understand that "money is not everything, but it really can't be without money" The ancients fulfilled this need in their own way, living a life of seclusion to make themselves feel comfortable, rather than prosperous and rich.

I would like to talk to you about the first need, the physiological need Yan Hui said: A spoonful of food, a scoop of drink, in the alleys, people are unbearable, and they will not change their happiness (referring to Yan Hui's life Although it is hard, he still does not change his ambition to be happy. Later used as a metaphor for the happiness of the poor)

　Why is a large amount of money in front of you, so attractive to you, but when you find out that this is a lie, you are crying? I don't know because I'm still young, but Wu knows "what you need and what you don't need"

　Some people always dislike the tatters of their homes, but they don't repair them, they only know how to spend all their time drinking, and they dare to ask why they gamble? Is gambling needed?

　I dislike it, but I don't know how to change it. Why should it be spent in such a way? "Calculate", "Consider", "Ask Yourself"

　Calculate how much you're going to spend in a day, consider your situation, ask yourself if you need it, and if you really have money to spare.

　But if you have a large amount of money in front of you, how will you use it? Or change items.

　But if it is Wu... will donate directly, because Wu "doesn't need", if Wu's simple way of life can make himself, open-minded (physical and mental comfort) why is it necessary to give money to those who need it more.