改變是必然的,不論是個人還是環境的變化!
但在改變之後,真的很難立即下定論!
而且,僅僅改變外在的形態,而不去觸及本質,這是非常不容易的事情!
我認為,我們仍然需要一些時間去真正了解自己,並且避免內耗的發生。
無論我們選擇如何改變,我們都需要尊重並接受彼此的決定!
因為,我們是彼此相愛的,我們還在成長和學習中,應該好好珍惜這段旅程!
這些都是老師和學校不會教的寶貴經驗!
生活壓力像無形的殺手,能把人連結在一起,又把人分開!
因此,我們需要學會如何經營彼此的世界。
當然,不僅僅是兩個人,所有的家人和朋友也都需要如此經營!
甚至,自己一個人也需要細心地經營自己的生活!
否則,隨著共鳴和和聲逐漸減少,內心將淨化至只能聽見自己的心跳;
如果再繼續平靜下去,恐怕連自己的聲音都會慢慢消失!
別再將自己囚禁在象牙塔中,長久下去只會對你自己和周圍的人造成傷害!
勇敢地伸出手,讓自己擺脫長期靜止的狀態,這樣才能避免心靈與身體在孤獨中生鏽和萎縮!
Breaking Free from the Ivory Tower
Change is inevitable, whether it occurs on a personal level or within the broader environment!
However, after change happens, it’s genuinely difficult to draw immediate conclusions!
Moreover, it is not easy to alter external appearances without addressing the essence itself!
I believe we just need more time to truly understand ourselves.
Regardless of how we choose to change, we must respect and accept each other's decisions!
After all, we love one another, and we are still growing and learning; we should cherish this journey!
These valuable lessons are not something that teachers and schools will teach you!
Life’s pressures act like invisible killers, bringing people together while pulling them apart!
This is why it's crucial to learn how to nurture the world between us.
Of course, it’s not just for two people—our families and friends also require this care!
Even when alone, one must carefully manage their own life!
Otherwise, as resonance and harmony diminish, the inner self will quiet down to just the sound of one’s heartbeat;
If this tranquility continues, you might even lose your own voice!
Don't lock yourself away in an ivory tower; in the long run, it won’t be good for yourself or others!
Be brave and reach out your hand, allowing yourself to escape a stagnant state, so you can avoid letting your mind and body rust away in loneliness!