如果一個人本就相信您，根本不用辯解；如果一個人從未認可您，那又何需辯解。辯解的起因在於委屈、不滿與憤怒，本都是負面的情緒，拿著負面情緒為自己辯解怎麼可能獲得好的結果呢？如果您沒有錯，辯解無用；如果您有錯，辯解更無用；如果您根本不知道誰對、誰錯，那辯解一定會為您帶來更多的災禍。
If a person believes in you, there is no need to defend at all; if a person has never recognized you, then there is no need to defend. The cause of justification is grievance, dissatisfaction and anger, which are all negative emotions. How can we get good results when we use negative emotions to defend ourselves? If you are not wrong, excuses are useless; if you are wrong, excuses are even more useless; if you don't know who is right and who is wrong, excuses will definitely bring you more disasters.
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