<h2 class=draft-block draft--h2 name=header-at199>當你能安然論及過往的傷害時,</h2> <h2 class=draft-block draft--h2 name=header-5rqn0>那也代表你已經治癒完了傷口,</h2> <div class=draft-block draft--p left></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>結束艱辛荊棘的那段路,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left><span style=text-decoration: underline; >(就像蛙人隊最終測試的天堂路那般)</span></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left><span style=font-weight: bold; >迎著嶄新與成長後的自我,</span></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left><span style=font-weight: bold; >這是傷害後的成就自我。</span></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>在情傷中,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>身邊的人總是對你一句:<span style=text-decoration: underline; >『學會愛自己,多愛自己」。</span></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>但卻沒有明確的告訴你,你能做什麼?</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>而你如何解讀這句話?</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>又如何著手成就這件事?</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>前幾天在社群裡,有人這麼討論著這個話題…</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left><span style=text-decoration: line-through; >到底要如何愛自已?</span></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left><span style=text-decoration: line-through; >我不懂什麼才是愛自己?</span></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left><span style=text-decoration: underline; font-weight: bold; >那你知道如何去愛一個人嗎?</span></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>很自然的你知道如何去做,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>當我們碰上愛的時候,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>你自然的會…</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>掏心掏肺毫無保留的將自己奉上,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>就希望對方看到你的真心,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>你學著改變自己成為他所希望的那樣,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>就希望他更滿意自己,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>你開始以他為中心做為思考點,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>就希望他能感到更多的幸福和滿足。</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>漸漸,你已不再是原來那個你自己,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>當你不再是自己熟悉的你後,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>你還懂得怎麼快樂和不凡嗎?</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>不懂了,因為你失去了自我。</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>這也是常人口中的,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>不要為愛失去自我,要懂得愛自己。</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left><span style=text-decoration: underline; font-weight: bold; >愛自己簡單來說,就是『保有』與『邁進』。</span></div> <pre class=public-DraftStyleDefault-pre draft-block><pre class=draft--code-block>保有原來的你,你原本的樣貌、</pre><pre class=draft--code-block>你原本的熱忱、你怡然的快樂、</pre><pre class=draft--code-block>你自然的行為、你獨特的自我…等等。</pre><pre class=draft--code-block><span style=font-weight: bold; >修正不夠理想的你</span>,<span style=font-weight: bold; >並邁進更好的自已。</span></pre></pre> <div class=draft-block draft--p left><span style=text-decoration: underline; >情傷後,就只是讓你尋回自己,</span></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>當你覓回原來的那個你,</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>自然會好好的呵護並愛著自己。</div> <ul> <li class=draft-block draft--li><a href=https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E8%BF%BD%E6%B1%82%E6%9B%B4%E5%AE%8C%E7%BE%8E%E7%9A%84%E8%87%AA%E6%88%91?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZWzh36kL0_3b3hYmYDGVLYVAm9jMjNYc1Sp7kb-dDXQBLr0Whb3k47-k7ug_-kCUqQ2Cgtzq4xwamRWPnapeP7MngX98zvYemuViBdQ3U_oTCzRbVeBn8L3G6bShLa6Awb4HGaQVOh9kGM8FGdcl7hZn32QghHA1_Ufyub6QMzA7w&__tn__=*NK-R target=_blank class=draft--a>追求更完美的自我</a></li> <li class=draft-block draft--li><a href=https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E4%B8%8D%E7%82%BA%E8%BF%8E%E5%90%88%E8%80%8C%E5%8E%BB%E6%84%9B?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZWzh36kL0_3b3hYmYDGVLYVAm9jMjNYc1Sp7kb-dDXQBLr0Whb3k47-k7ug_-kCUqQ2Cgtzq4xwamRWPnapeP7MngX98zvYemuViBdQ3U_oTCzRbVeBn8L3G6bShLa6Awb4HGaQVOh9kGM8FGdcl7hZn32QghHA1_Ufyub6QMzA7w&__tn__=*NK-R target=_blank class=draft--a>不為迎合而去愛</a></li> <li class=draft-block draft--li><a href=https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E4%B8%8D%E7%82%BA%E6%84%9B%E8%80%8C%E5%A4%B1%E8%87%AA%E6%88%91?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZWzh36kL0_3b3hYmYDGVLYVAm9jMjNYc1Sp7kb-dDXQBLr0Whb3k47-k7ug_-kCUqQ2Cgtzq4xwamRWPnapeP7MngX98zvYemuViBdQ3U_oTCzRbVeBn8L3G6bShLa6Awb4HGaQVOh9kGM8FGdcl7hZn32QghHA1_Ufyub6QMzA7w&__tn__=*NK-R target=_blank class=draft--a>不為愛而失自我</a></li> <li class=draft-block draft--li><a href=https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E7%82%BA%E4%BA%BA%E7%94%9F%E9%BB%9E%E7%B6%B4%E4%B8%8D%E5%90%8C%E7%9A%84%E8%89%B2%E5%BD%A9%E8%88%87%E6%A8%A3%E8%B2%8C?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZWzh36kL0_3b3hYmYDGVLYVAm9jMjNYc1Sp7kb-dDXQBLr0Whb3k47-k7ug_-kCUqQ2Cgtzq4xwamRWPnapeP7MngX98zvYemuViBdQ3U_oTCzRbVeBn8L3G6bShLa6Awb4HGaQVOh9kGM8FGdcl7hZn32QghHA1_Ufyub6QMzA7w&__tn__=*NK-R target=_blank class=draft--a>為人生點綴不同的色彩與樣貌</a></li> <li class=draft-block draft--li><a href=https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E4%B8%8D%E6%80%95%E5%8F%97%E5%82%B7%E4%B8%8D%E6%80%95%E9%9B%A3%E8%99%95?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZWzh36kL0_3b3hYmYDGVLYVAm9jMjNYc1Sp7kb-dDXQBLr0Whb3k47-k7ug_-kCUqQ2Cgtzq4xwamRWPnapeP7MngX98zvYemuViBdQ3U_oTCzRbVeBn8L3G6bShLa6Awb4HGaQVOh9kGM8FGdcl7hZn32QghHA1_Ufyub6QMzA7w&__tn__=*NK-R target=_blank class=draft--a>不怕受傷不怕難處</a></li> <li class=draft-block draft--li><a href=https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E5%8B%87%E6%B0%A3%E6%98%AF%E8%A7%A3%E6%B1%BA%E7%9A%84%E5%9F%BA%E6%9C%AC?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZWzh36kL0_3b3hYmYDGVLYVAm9jMjNYc1Sp7kb-dDXQBLr0Whb3k47-k7ug_-kCUqQ2Cgtzq4xwamRWPnapeP7MngX98zvYemuViBdQ3U_oTCzRbVeBn8L3G6bShLa6Awb4HGaQVOh9kGM8FGdcl7hZn32QghHA1_Ufyub6QMzA7w&__tn__=*NK-R target=_blank class=draft--a>勇氣是解決的基本</a></li> <li class=draft-block draft--li><a href=https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E7%90%86%E6%99%BA%E6%98%AF%E5%AE%8C%E5%96%84%E7%9A%84%E7%AC%AC%E4%B8%80%E6%AD%A5?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZWzh36kL0_3b3hYmYDGVLYVAm9jMjNYc1Sp7kb-dDXQBLr0Whb3k47-k7ug_-kCUqQ2Cgtzq4xwamRWPnapeP7MngX98zvYemuViBdQ3U_oTCzRbVeBn8L3G6bShLa6Awb4HGaQVOh9kGM8FGdcl7hZn32QghHA1_Ufyub6QMzA7w&__tn__=*NK-R target=_blank class=draft--a>理智是完善的第一步</a></li> </ul>