<div class=draft-block draft--p left>#謝謝你平平安安的在我身邊</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>大約1個多月前,我開始在每天睡前窩窩心時</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>跟孩子們說這句話</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>最早起心動念是因為燁撞到頭流血那次</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>讓我對「珍惜」二字似乎有了更深刻的體會</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>因為真心感謝孩子們平安健康地在我身邊</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>我真誠地看著他們,向他們道謝與親吻!</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>後來…偶爾會用這句話來湊數</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>我們家的睡前儀式是</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>每天睡前至少要互相講3句鼓勵的話</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>偶爾我想不到孩子有什麼亮點時</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>就用這句話來充數</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>(但我還是有充滿愛意的講啦)</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>講一陣子後,有一次我陪燁睡前窩窩心時</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>已經講了5件燁很棒的事</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>燁依舊一直問我:「媽咪~還有啊!」</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>接著我又講了2件,燁還是追問著:</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>「媽咪,還有一件啊!妳忘了哦?」</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>我思索著,這孩子到底是想聽哪句</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>突然間,這句話在我腦裡蹦了出來!</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>「謝謝你平平安安的在我身邊!」</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>燁這才笑得甜密、心滿意足地不再追問~</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>那次的經驗也讓我明白</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>原來這看似平凡無奇的一句話</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>對孩子來說,居然那麼重要!</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>在日常生活中</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>父母總是會對孩子有期待</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>飯後收拾餐桌、睡前收拾玩具、準備隔天書包、</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>時間到該刷牙刷牙、該洗澡洗澡、該睡覺睡覺</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>在時間壓力下、或媽媽狀態不好的時候</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>也會為了這些日常瑣事而衍生情緒</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>若沒有刻意與孩子對話、或關心孩子</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>其實孩子很容易把大人的負向情緒錯誤解讀為</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left><a href=https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E5%AA%BD%E5%AA%BD%E4%B8%8D%E9%96%8B%E5%BF%83%E6%88%96%E7%94%9F%E6%B0%A3%E6%98%AF%E5%9B%A0%E7%82%BA%E6%88%91%E5%81%9A%E5%BE%97%E4%B8%8D%E5%A4%A0%E5%A5%BD?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZUgYK2BOnLgoopomk9AdwSJPupgn7lcy6S-LQA6qFJ8eLzWIW4vsZd7hY37nNdVTTCfiV1NAL8GIHdsc6KFMyt3HYzxXzOuXlB5C1Ec049abzFMFwLtCPKtH2HHDXkZENX-8NlLNrYNSpFKvPG1byXo68VHJzQws4kK0Nw4ZeoNJ0pdTNJ9fKyijLyF0lVjQrM&__tn__=*NK*F target=_blank class=draft--a>#媽媽不開心或生氣是因為我做得不夠好</a></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>可是這句<a 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href=https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E5%B0%B1%E7%AE%97%E4%BD%A0%E6%B2%92%E6%9C%89%E6%BB%BF%E8%B6%B3%E9%80%99%E5%80%8B%E4%B8%96%E7%95%8C%E5%8A%A0%E8%AB%B8%E6%96%BC%E4%BD%A0%E7%9A%84%E6%9C%9F%E5%BE%85?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZUgYK2BOnLgoopomk9AdwSJPupgn7lcy6S-LQA6qFJ8eLzWIW4vsZd7hY37nNdVTTCfiV1NAL8GIHdsc6KFMyt3HYzxXzOuXlB5C1Ec049abzFMFwLtCPKtH2HHDXkZENX-8NlLNrYNSpFKvPG1byXo68VHJzQws4kK0Nw4ZeoNJ0pdTNJ9fKyijLyF0lVjQrM&__tn__=*NK*F target=_blank class=draft--a>#就算你沒有滿足這個世界加諸於你的期待</a></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>你也依然值得。</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>這句話在說的其實就是:</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>「親愛的孩子,我愛你,就只是因為你是你」</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left></div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>現在,它不只是我每天對孩子窩窩心的必備語句</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>孩子們也經常對我說:</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>「媽咪,謝謝妳平平安安的在我身邊」</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>第一次被孩子這麼說時</div> <div class=draft-block draft--p left>我好像有點理解了</div> <div 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