<div class=lexical__image center><div class=lexical__imageWrapper><img src=https://d2a6d2ofes041u.cloudfront.net/resize?norotation=true&quality=1&url=https%3A%2F%2Fimages.vocus.cc%2F3dd819bc-b433-4991-ae14-b0413ebc49d2.jpg&width=640&sign=C6kwPpeJoL3nosZ_w49rRAj_lk1UpuvbvBiq0KEO2Hk data-src=https://d2a6d2ofes041u.cloudfront.net/resize?norotation=true&quality=80&url=https%3A%2F%2Fimages.vocus.cc%2F3dd819bc-b433-4991-ae14-b0413ebc49d2.jpg&width=640&sign=uk6Z7S6KmXgWXJuMJ0SRJbXeyrVbG59XjPh39nBVPD4 class=lazy data-original-src=https://images.vocus.cc/3dd819bc-b433-4991-ae14-b0413ebc49d2.jpg data-lowquality=true data-width=640 data-height=640 alt=raw-image></div><div></div></div><p class=lexical__paragraph><br></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>如果你把愛別人看得比愛自己還要重要,那麼關係就容易出現失衡,</span><br><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>愛的前提是自我之愛,</span><br><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>當你愛自己了,你的內在才會穩定,才會感覺安全,有價值感,會相信自己、肯定自己,</span><br><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>你用這樣的自己去愛別人,</span><br><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>會看見對方真實的樣貌,尊重並且接納,</span><br><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>你不會企圖干預或控制,</span><br><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>你會在付出與接受之間找到平衡點,</span><br><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>你知道你有你的人生方向,別人也有屬於他的人生舞台,</span><br><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>你不會比別人完美,而別人也無法取代你,</span><br><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>每一個人都是如此獨特的存在;</span></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>當我們能夠穿越這層幻象,我們會如實地愛自己,也會歡喜別人的成長與成就。</span></p>