2023#4 I USED TO HAVE A PLAN but life had other ideas

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I used to have a plan, now I don't, not really. My life may be messier than it used to be, but I have never been clearer and happier about who I am.

書中金句

此書的用字不多，但是少少的字配上切題的繪畫，即便是沉重話題，也讓人讀來特別輕鬆自在。以下是我自己非常有感觸的幾句書中箴言，也覺得每次回想起時都能給自己注入一股新能量:

100% vulnerable. Be gentle with me. 理解自己的脆弱，別害怕向外求助，更不必擔憂別人怎麼看自己。

Dear Pain, thank you for stopping me dead in my tracks and showing me what is really important. It's been enducational, but you can go now. 生命中的苦痛阿，謝謝你教導了我一切，現在，你可以離開了。

The painful times, the ones we think will bury us...are often the exact ones that open us up. 打不死我們的，必讓我們更強壯。

A borken heart is an open heart. 傷過，就會找到另一種把心打開的方式。

It's okay that you are not okay. 做不好，又怎樣? 狀態不好時，接受它(事實)，毋須過度批判自己。

Experimenting and failing_ an autobiography. 人生，本就是在不斷的試驗與失敗中成長。

腦中想的永遠都比說出來的多更多。

Today I will live in the moment, and that moment is in bed. 偶而放自己一馬，偷懶一下又何妨?

Dear self, it's ok to check out for a while, just remember to check back in. 累的時候，可以讓心出走一陣子，但切記要讓自己回歸。

Don't make permanent desicions based on temporary feelings. 別讓情緒為自己做任何決定。

How to stay positive when all you want to do is be negative....start with one small positve thought. 心情不好時，試著從最小最小能夠讓你愉悅的事開始做起。

Some of our greatest battles are with ourselves. 有時候，我們最大的敵人是自己。

You don't have to figure it out all at once. 一步一步慢慢來，別超之過急。

Sometimes it doesn't have to make sense...and soemtimes it doens't make sense. 不須強求合理或不合理，這個世界沒道理的事多的是。

Get out of your own way. Seriously, move. 別作繭自縛，一旦發現，立馬撤!

If it comes, let it. If it goes, let it. 別太執著，該來的就會來，該走的也讓它走吧。

Grow through what you go through. 人是從經驗中成長的，無論經驗的好壞。

On the other side of fear is freedom. 恐懼的另一端是自由。

Dear self, I'm not where I want to be, but at least I. not where I used to be. 跟自己說，雖然目地未達，至少我已經走向前，沒有原地踏步。

Remember, life changes. Respect where you are. 生命改變的同時，切莫忘初衷。

Stay hopeful, hope helps. 希望可以製造勇氣，希望也是迷航時的燈塔。

I have no idea where I'm going, but I'm on my way. 我不知道未來在哪兒，但我很確切我一直走在通往未來的路上。