Be not satisfied with yourself when your life is in turmoil, but seek for guidance and direction from within, and be willing to accept help from without. There are many times when I have to use My channels to help to throw light on a situation, especially when there are blind spots or when you are too close to a situation to be able to view it clearly yourself. At those times be willing to accept help from without, though it does not mean you have to rush to someone else every time you need a problem solved. It is important for you to learn to stand on your own feet and do your own thinking and seeking within whenever possible. You must not be spiritually lazy, relying on someone else for something you know you should be working out yourself. It takes time and patience to be still and go within to find the answer, but you cannot hope to grow spiritually unless you learn to put it into practice.