There was a ship bound for England in the ocean, and on the way, it encountered a storm at sea, and the whole ship panicked and fell into despair, and only an old lady looked calm and calmly prayed.
After the storm left, someone asked the old lady why she wasn't afraid at all just now.
The old woman replied, "I have two daughters, and the eldest daughter has been taken away by God; The youngest daughter lives in the UK. So just now I was praying to God that if I were to be taken back to my home in heaven, I would go to see my eldest daughter; If I had to survive, I would go see my little daughter. It's the same everywhere I go, so why should I be afraid? 」
"Don't be afraid that your life will end, but fear that it never begins." —John Henry Cardinal Newman
In the face of the fear of the unknown, we are always both expectant and afraid of being hurt. When there's something you have to do or something you've always wanted to do, don't be afraid, just give it a go. There are some things that you don't do now, and you won't do after that.
We don't always have to be approved by others to do something. As long as this is something that does not violate moral conscience and does not violate ethical laws, why not try it? Life is only once, live for yourself. What should be most frightening is that you want to do it, but you are always worried about this and that, dragging your feet until the last moment of your life, only to regret why you never started.
Grasp every moment, life is not so regretful. Don't let yourself live in the mood of envy and jealousy if you want to fight on your own, practice to achieve, and no longer leave regrets because of fear.