Since she was young, Xiao Mei has always hated being scolded by others, especially when she was asked to "behave well". Whenever someone said this, she felt restricted and constrained.
One day, Xiao Mei had a fight with her partner. When the other person hugged her and said "behave well", Xiao Mei's emotions completely collapsed. She began to scream, and the sweet atmosphere disappeared, becoming awkward and tense.
Because of this atmosphere, Xiao Mei began to reflect on whether her own thoughts were problematic. Why couldn't she accept the other person's desire to give her a hug and warmth?
She remembered when she was a child, when her parents would ask her to "behave well" when she refused to wear a jacket or do her homework. At the time, she thought that this would limit her freedom and make her uncomfortable. But now, she realized that these restrictions were actually to protect her.
She began to reflect that humans always need some constraints in society, such as following the law, and paying attention to safety. The purpose of these constraints is to protect us and help us live better.
Xiao Mei deeply realized that "being good" is actually a commendatory term and should not be seen as a restriction. She decided to apologize to her partner and promised to be a more mature person in the future.