<div class=lexical__image center><div class=lexical__imageWrapper><img src=https://d2a6d2ofes041u.cloudfront.net/resize?norotation=true&quality=1&url=https%3A%2F%2Fimages.vocus.cc%2F1d55afa7-bcb5-4c61-a6c9-4643d6d96b9f.jpg&width=640&sign=mj8AhBil-dJ2Bz887J3ARO8pa2f_t3dbtpQ7j1ZbBsw data-src=https://d2a6d2ofes041u.cloudfront.net/resize?norotation=true&quality=80&url=https%3A%2F%2Fimages.vocus.cc%2F1d55afa7-bcb5-4c61-a6c9-4643d6d96b9f.jpg&width=640&sign=yD9V4mW7lbk3X9AIz9Jmc3FJ_i5ddEYPVWGGrT-bx0s class=lazy data-original-src=https://images.vocus.cc/1d55afa7-bcb5-4c61-a6c9-4643d6d96b9f.jpg data-lowquality=true data-width=640 data-height=427 alt=raw-image></div><div></div></div><p class=lexical__paragraph><br></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>關係之間的痛苦,來自於我們總想要改變另一個人、期待另一個人,因而產生摩擦與衝突,</span><br><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>我們忽略了改變別人不是我們的責任,</span><br><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>我們只能夠透過以身作則,啟發對方願意去做出改變;</span></p><p class=lexical__paragraph dir=ltr><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>當我們沒有意識到、沒有洞察到這個真相,</span><br><span style=white-space: pre-wrap;>就容易在關係裡陷入糾結與執著,拯救與受害,不斷地重蹈覆轍。</span></p>