Introduction
Those 3 weeks, from May 15 to June 4, felt like the longest in my life. Every morning, I woke up and immediately opened my laptop to customize another resume and cover letter, praying for an interview invite. That cycle of anxiety, hope, disappointment, and hope again is something every job seeker in the UK knows too well.
I’m sharing this not to boast about the outcome, but to encourage anyone struggling—it gets better.
Days of Intense Applications
On May 15, I decided to go all in. From morning till night, I searched job sites, studied job descriptions, and customized every application. It was exhausting. Each cover letter took 30 to 60 minutes. My fingers ached, my eyes dried out, but I kept telling myself, “Don’t give up. The next one might be the one.”Interview Invitations Start Rolling In
After a few days, interview invites finally came. Some online, some in person. I still remember the buzzing excitement when I got the first one. For a moment, I felt hopeful.
The First Five Interviews: Tough Lessons
Reality hit hard. After each of the first five interviews, I knew I wouldn’t be hired. It wasn’t because I did badly, but I felt a disconnect in the vibes, the questions, and the pacing.
- I was too nervous and stumbled over answers.
- I was prepared but missed unexpected questions.
- The interview went smoothly, but I didn’t fit the company culture.
4 and 5. I improved but never quite clicked.
After each one, I would sit at a café, reflecting on how I could do better. Self-doubt crept in.
Turning Point: Interviews 6 to 8
Then something changed.
Interview 6: I decided to stop “packaging” myself and just be real. I talked about challenges I’d overcome in past roles, and suddenly, the interviewer looked engaged.
Interview 7: I spoke with the director for nearly an hour. He appreciated not just my skills but also my attitude and values.
Interview 8: That interviewer told me I ranked second out of 30 candidates. They praised my deep answers, strong personality, and relevant experience. I didn’t get the job, but hearing that felt incredible.
Key Takeaways
- Each interview is a learning opportunity.
- Authenticity beats perfection.
- Not getting hired doesn’t mean you’re not good. The UK job market is tough, with hundreds competing for each role.
Advice for Fellow Job Seekers
- Keep customizing your applications. Employers notice the effort.
- Treat interviews like practice. Keep building experience.
- Be yourself. The right company will appreciate you.
- Don’t doubt your worth. Sometimes it’s about timing or culture fit, not your ability.
Conclusion
Looking back, those tough three weeks helped me grow, discover myself, and find direction. Even though the final outcome wasn’t what I expected, the process was valuable.
If you’re struggling too, remember: you’re not alone. Your efforts aren’t wasted. Keep going; something great is waiting.
You’re better than you think. You deserve the best.
Don’t give up. The right opportunity will come.
